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Offline maldoror

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Giving off the wrong signals
« on: November 07, 2007, 10:46:19 PM »
There's a gay guy in one of my classes that seems to be flirting with me. I think he might be interpreting my aspie-awkwardness as gay-awkwardness. Does this happen to anybody else?
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Re: Giving off the wrong signals
« Reply #1 on: November 07, 2007, 10:47:30 PM »
People sometimes think I'm straight.

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Re: Giving off the wrong signals
« Reply #2 on: November 07, 2007, 10:47:57 PM »
Yeah but not with gays. I get called a "cock tease" and i'm not even flirting. I'm just open about talking about that stuff.

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Re: Giving off the wrong signals
« Reply #3 on: November 07, 2007, 10:48:53 PM »
People sometimes think I'm straight.

Well, most people are.
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Re: Giving off the wrong signals
« Reply #4 on: November 07, 2007, 10:50:35 PM »
Not really, I have only been hit on by a gay guy once in my life IRL.  Though I am oblivious to shit like that a good portion of the time anyways.  On the internet is a different story haha.   In FFXI it seemed like gay guys hit on almost everyone.
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Re: Giving off the wrong signals
« Reply #5 on: November 07, 2007, 10:55:42 PM »
Yeah but not with gays. I get called a "cock tease" and i'm not even flirting. I'm just open about talking about that stuff.
Same here, just that I get called a "slut" and a "whore" and such.
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Re: Giving off the wrong signals
« Reply #6 on: November 07, 2007, 11:01:52 PM »
i've always wanted a hot girl to hit on me but hasn't happened. noone would prolly hit on me now anyway what with these zits. :ktong:
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Re: Giving off the wrong signals
« Reply #7 on: November 07, 2007, 11:08:10 PM »
i've always wanted a hot girl to hit on me but hasn't happened.
me too  :P

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Re: Giving off the wrong signals
« Reply #8 on: November 07, 2007, 11:42:29 PM »
I wish people would flirt with me... I've only had one person..well two but lets not discuss that one.  (neither of them were renaeden!)


I sometimes give off a "hostile vibe" when I'm just being passive. It can be somewhat disconcerting and irritating trying to explain that I'm "not being hostile, that's just the way I am"

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Re: Giving off the wrong signals
« Reply #9 on: November 07, 2007, 11:57:23 PM »
I think I come across as hostile too.
No girls ever flirt with me.  :(

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Re: Giving off the wrong signals
« Reply #10 on: November 08, 2007, 12:17:26 AM »
i would flirt with you. if i flirted with people. :P
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Re: Giving off the wrong signals
« Reply #11 on: November 08, 2007, 12:22:24 AM »
lol I don't flirt with people either. I don't think I know how.  :-\

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Re: Giving off the wrong signals
« Reply #12 on: November 08, 2007, 12:26:36 AM »
i just have no need for it. i don't try to have relationships IRL so there's no point. :P
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Re: Giving off the wrong signals
« Reply #13 on: November 08, 2007, 12:28:02 AM »
Neither do I. People IRL scare me though.  :o

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Re: Giving off the wrong signals
« Reply #14 on: November 08, 2007, 05:54:00 AM »
I flirted once...It was disturbingly overdone on my part and I'm sure I scared alot of people, including my partner in flirtingness.