Ive read all the theory on flirting. Tried it for a while. Of course, a complete failure.
Im happy with just being myself nowadays. Putting on this flirting act was just ridiculous.
As for people flirting with me. I dont really know. I keep getting invited around for a cup of tea with a woman i know, she says, "pop around anytime." But i would not do that unannounced and i cant recipocrate the offer - i mean i cant have people come around without an appointment so to speak.
I wish she would be more clearer in her intentions. Like, pop over now, or tomorrow at 2pm - whatever, im in a bit of a quandary.