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Why it sucks being forever single
« on: November 01, 2007, 03:45:28 AM »
Because whenever you make friends, they get a GF/BF and you never see them again. It's like friends are meaningless. Like, not worth it. It would be sweet to get a group of friends that would never ever get a BF or GF.

Like that would happen though, I should just make do with cats. :thumbup:

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Re: Why it sucks being forever single
« Reply #1 on: November 01, 2007, 03:51:48 AM »
Or you could make friends that already have a GF/BF, that way there is less chance of less contact. :)

Though cats are a good option too :)

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Re: Why it sucks being forever single
« Reply #2 on: November 01, 2007, 04:13:16 AM »
If friends start to reject you because they're in a relationship, fuck 'em. Having a girlfriend/boyfriend isn't the be all and end all of life.

Or it could be that your depression is allowing you to take things too personally. I dunno.
« Last Edit: November 01, 2007, 04:15:20 AM by King Oberon of Ass »

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Re: Why it sucks being forever single
« Reply #3 on: November 01, 2007, 10:18:47 AM »
My RL friends still hang out with me whether they have a GF or not.   I have always gotten along well with my RL friends GFs.  On the net it is a different story usually as people tend to be on less when they have a GF/BF.   RL friends that get married or have kids I don't see to often or never hang out with anymore.
:P   Internets are super serious.

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Re: Why it sucks being forever single
« Reply #4 on: November 01, 2007, 10:28:07 AM »
Friends? What are they?

Seriously though, this happens with
exceedingly close friendships. I've
been on both sides. You can't spend
every day together with a friend, AND
with your SO.

Don't think I've ever been in a situation
where things were completely cut off
because of this, though.

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Re: Why it sucks being forever single
« Reply #5 on: November 01, 2007, 11:16:12 AM »
personally i like it, its teh


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Re: Why it sucks being forever single
« Reply #6 on: November 01, 2007, 05:44:20 PM »
Because whenever you make friends, they get a GF/BF and you never see them again. It's like friends are meaningless. Like, not worth it. It would be sweet to get a group of friends that would never ever get a BF or GF.

Like that would happen though, I should just make do with cats. :thumbup:

Yeah. I'm staying single though. But the BF/GF thing sucks. It's peer pressure. The stupid media telling us to waste our lives in the game of love. I don't play that game.
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Re: Why it sucks being forever single
« Reply #7 on: November 01, 2007, 05:49:40 PM »
Love isn't a game. Nothing's better.

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Why it sucks to be forever married.
« Reply #8 on: November 01, 2007, 06:44:37 PM »

God damn!


I don't know where to start.



Enjoy your freedom! ... first of all.

Shit, I mean earlier today - we faught and then she left for work to support us, so I made the best of it by playing my music.


I'm trying to remember what we faught over, but I can't. It seeemed to start with her destroying my secondary space and I objected. She countered with the fact that she has no space that id hers. She only want something to call hers and I understand that. We were arguing about the same fucking thing from two different perspectives.

Nevermind. I'm confused.
Jimi Hendrix: When the power of love overcomes the love of power the world will know peace. 

Ghandi: Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.

The end result of life's daily pain and suffering, trials and failures, tears and laughter, readings and listenings is an accumulation of wisdom in its purest form.

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Re: Why it sucks being forever single
« Reply #9 on: November 01, 2007, 06:54:19 PM »
im sticking to cats from now on. actually, i never really had any friends irl in the first place  :laugh:

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Re: Why it sucks being forever single
« Reply #10 on: November 01, 2007, 06:55:53 PM »
The right friends are WELL worth it.
I suspect you'll find that out though,
in time.

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Re: Why it sucks being forever single
« Reply #11 on: November 01, 2007, 07:38:27 PM »
i realised that when i met sophie actually. first time ive ever really cared about someone as a friend. yet to see that in real life though

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Re: Why it sucks being forever single
« Reply #12 on: November 01, 2007, 07:41:50 PM »
I know. But, you will again. Just as I'm
sure that I shall. :-\

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Re: Why it sucks being forever single
« Reply #13 on: November 01, 2007, 07:50:57 PM »
i cant see it happening for me really. i dont think anyone would be able to put up with me like sophie did. we had the same interests and laughed at the same things and said the same things at the same time. i think id only be able to get on with someone else like that. and there isnt anyone else like her.

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Re: Why it sucks being forever single
« Reply #14 on: November 01, 2007, 07:57:26 PM »
I thought the same, when my first gf and I
broke up. Seriously, before I was your age,
I hadn't met anyone I could care about, at
all. Met a couple of guys whom I bonded
with completely. Then, a couple years later,
I met my first gf. I thought that was perfection.
There have been a few others, whom I've felt
so close to though. All different people, but
with the same comfort and togetherness.
You're still young - you will.

And you'll look back, and say uncle cal told
you so.  :laugh: