i don't know if willow does or does not love her. that's for her to explain, if she chooses to do so. what i AM saying is that you most certainly don't know, and that it's up to her.
and what i am also saying is that i'm more than a bit worried about willow, and mostly because of what is not being said here.
as for me being one-sided, i think that's not a big secret around here. it doesn't stop me from caring about willow, or from reacting when your twelve monkeys are more random than usual.