Waitinglist for number two will be short, and she'll get the same team as my oldest had, very pleased with that.
Further, my ex has promised to commit himself to visiting his kids on Saturdays. So they will have something they can count on, in stead of wondering if and when he'll turn up.
that is great for the kids. i used to wait outside for my father when he was scheduled to pick us up. sometimes i would wait for hours because he was always late.
There is hoping. They have waited in vain too.
They won't have to wait outside though.
He hasn't got a place for himself, apart from a very small bedroom. So, he'll be seeing them here. I have to work on Saturdays, so, will be extra good for them if he makes it every Saturday.
And I'll have my Sundays with them, without him maybe popping up unexpectedly. Will be able to plan more for those Sundays then, without sort of expecting him to turn up.