Zomg Aspie emo fucking cuntrags

[Christopher McCandless]

You fail because you go in with a negative attitude. Go in with a positive one. Seriously aspies can succeed if they try. You just have to make the effort in life, rather than hiding behind a quilt of psychological labels. Move forward.

These platitudes are such BS. So many times, I've had the
most fucking positive attitude that I could. Yeah, now and then,
it may work. Usually nothing. Last week, I got fucking bounced
from the bar - probably for my 'positive attitude'.

It works in the right scenarios. It does work, honestly. Or I am doing something else that I dont realise. What is certain is if you go out with a negative attiutude, you are very unlikely to make friends.

[Calandale]

I know it does. And it's all fucking magical when
it happens. Feeds on itself, and just keeps getting
better. Ah, there are setbacks, but overall.

But, 'tis not something you can just decide.
It's all in little steps. If you psyche yourself
into some sort of positive attitude, expecting
to succeed (ah, how they always advise this
crap), and you don't - you fall even further.

Aim for little things. Even they may be too
much. But, the cost is less.

[Kosmonaut]

Negative and positive attitudes are both the same really.
Best way is just not to give a shit. Well, best for me anyway.

[Mr Smith]

Why are you people even bothering to make a thread on this? If you don't care, give it the fuck up.

So you got banned from some forum, there are plenty of others out there to enjoy.

[Calandale]

Gee. One could take that attitude about
anyone's bitching about anything.

But, sometimes, 'tis good to let
off a little steam.

[Mr Smith]

Gee. One could take that attitude about
anyone's bitching about anything.

But, sometimes, 'tis good to let
off a little steam.

Fair point. I don't see why he cares though. Different priorities, I guess.

[renaeden]

so what if i moved your shit stinking post out of starbuline's thread? her boyfriend just died.

I thought KBABZ was sort of Starbuline's boyfriend even though he lives far away from her.

[Tequila]

Wasn't that more due to her issues (for want of a better word) though?

[Mr Smith]

Wasn't that more due to her issues (for want of a better word) though?

I don't know, I don't chat with either of them. All I saw was a big pointless spaz on WP. Fair enough to get mad at each other on IM, no real need to bring it to the forums though. I usually keep my forum bickering to the forum, and IM bitching to IM.

[Teejay]

lol


so what if i moved your shit stinking post out of starbuline's thread? her boyfriend just died.

Who was her boyfriend anyway?

[Soph]

I know.

Any way to try what that kid over at WP did?
Setting up an AS club. This isn't the time, obviously,
but just a thought to germinate.

Just realized something so fucking wrong with me
(and maybe most of us) - I'm really stressing, but
wouldn't ask those that I know for help. Tend to
just try and hide from what potential friends that
I DO have.

i've been under a lot of stress these last few days, but i haven't told anyone i know in real life about all this shit. that's probably why i get fucked up and have emo meltdowns like the other day; it's all directed at these forums.

i see a guy from the NAS (national autistic society over here) every week, and he runs an AS group on fridays at manchester university. its an hour after my last lectures so i'm going to start going to that next week or the week after.

[Soph]

i seem to fail every time i manage to find someone who could possibly become a friend. and it's physically exhausting. so right now i don't have the energy to try again, because the chances are so high that i'll fail again, and it's just draining.

You fail because you go in with a negative attitude. Go in with a positive one. Seriously aspies can succeed if they try. You just have to make the effort in life, rather than hiding behind a quilt of psychological labels. Move forward.

i didn't go in with a negative attitude. when i was at my lowest i didn't try at all, it was when i was better that i tried it. and this was before i even knew i had AS, so i didn't have a negative attitude due to that. i have a negative attitude now, yes. because there are only so many times i can go into something hoping for the best, and continuously get the worst.

[Soph]

Negative and positive attitudes are both the same really.
Best way is just not to give a shit. Well, best for me anyway.

that';s what i'm trying to do right now. i was beginning to get there but with all this crap this week, i'm starting to wish i had someone IRL.

[Soph]

lol


so what if i moved your shit stinking post out of starbuline's thread? her boyfriend just died.

Who was her boyfriend anyway?

kingcrimson on zomg

[Christopher McCandless]

i seem to fail every time i manage to find someone who could possibly become a friend. and it's physically exhausting. so right now i don't have the energy to try again, because the chances are so high that i'll fail again, and it's just draining.

You fail because you go in with a negative attitude. Go in with a positive one. Seriously aspies can succeed if they try. You just have to make the effort in life, rather than hiding behind a quilt of psychological labels. Move forward.

i didn't go in with a negative attitude. when i was at my lowest i didn't try at all, it was when i was better that i tried it. and this was before i even knew i had AS, so i didn't have a negative attitude due to that. i have a negative attitude now, yes. because there are only so many times i can go into something hoping for the best, and continuously get the worst.

Ok, you go wrong in places. If you dont mind me asking, how do you go wrong? What tends to screw up? There must be some sort of grouping/ social in your uni that you will fit into somehow.