No. I hate that her opinion that i'm not allowed to swear is more important than my opinion that I should be allowed to. It pains me. Greatly. And she hides behind the rules of the chat room rather than making fair and conscienous decisions. The rules exist to protect the people not imprison them. You should only stop people from swearing or talking about adult things if they are using those things to hurt people. You shouldnt stop it just because it technically isn't allowed. I told her how strongly I feel about it, she knows I only use the terms in a thoughtful fashion, i told her how much it hurts me, but she told me this was the real world and i was free to leave at any time.
I feel raped.
Also, at no point during my discussion with her on this, did i swear.