Some of my single life, many years ago, I spent doing pot. Many of my hardest questions centered around: Do I want to just sit here with my dark thoughts and go, "DUUURRR!" or do I want to go find some porn (or a bitch, if I was lucky enough at the time to have one handy) and sit there with a hard-on and go, "DUUURRR!"
Wine, alcohol in general, has a different effect on me. I get relaxed at first, but I usually end up quite tense. Pot never made me tense.
If I could get away with using it and still keep my job (they do random pee tests - I can't use it at all), I would smoke, brew or cook some every day. I can grow it quite well in controlled spaces. I would have my own supply.
I would probably not get so cunty here, when shit happens. I would certainly give much less of a shit about anything and everything.