right! enough, already!
gus and soph, if you want to continue further development of this personal argument, take it into the main event forum. and then everyone else can stick their opinions/advice/etc. in the peanut gallery.
this is going round in circles, and you're both better people than this. no-one's right and no-one's wrong.
get it into the ring, and duke it out until you've got it out of your systems.
"As prescribed by Doctor Witch."
(and now you can both start on me for being bossy, but only in the main event).