my toes? lol
flake (someone who hates me for no real reason) has locked me out of zomg again and I can't get back on 
can't even get on the starbuline forum so I can't read through her posts or anything
You can do what kosmo did,
and make a new account.
Big thing though - have you contacted
the hosts? At the least, they should be
able to give you a hidden admin acct.