I have one, with job included and food, a roof over my head, a car, and a family (I've also accepted that I have faults). I don't think that I've ever posted on the internet or any public forum how long my orgasms last, or how they felt, or how I can pull down my underwear in response to someone suggesting that their dog do a trick. You have a one track mind, and unless your future might include starring in handicapped porn; it's probably not the track that's going to put money in your pocket, food on the table, and a family in your heart.