PI, my wife and I have a "closed", exclusive relationship. I was not making a judgement on anything other than lying to a spouse, which I do not do. Our relationship was not exclusive in that way when we met, but it went in that direction, with marriage. It most likely will never change, either.
Ah, I was thinking that your wife might enjoy her too.
Nope. My wife is repulsed by the thoughts of a three-way and shows more than a few signs of being homophobic. She doesn't even like it much when I point out hunky guys for her check out. She asks if I picked him out for her or myself, when she is feeling ornery, but she would not accept me chasing down a third party, either sex, for our lovelife. Those days were over, before she an I got together.
... just memories of an experimental youth, at this point.