Y'know, my typical reaction to the idea of "kink" used to be anxiety. Now, it's more varied. "Hey, that sounds OK if it's not too hardcore," is an infrequent response. More often it's "Ehw, that's DISGUSTING," or "You'd have to be fucking INSANE to try that, unless you watered it WAY the hell down." And even more often than that, it's "How long can you *possibly* do that without getting bored? That sounds RETARDED," or, more simply, "...but... but... that sounds DUMB."
Yeah, it's dumb. Cause anyone that thinks or feels different than you is obviously retarded
that's just pure ignorance
Do whatever makes you happy, and enjoy it to the fullest, hon. I just can't bend my mind far enough to understand how some "kinks" or fetishes could possibly be enjoyable, or even hold the attention of those participating. I have to take the "well, I guess if it works for you, go for it" approrach.
It's kind of like trying to understand why anyone would voluntarily listen to genres of music that I find boring or annoying, or why they would watch television or movies that I'd rather stare at a blank wall than subject myself to. To each his own- but that doesn't mean I can't have
my opinion, either.