Y'know, my typical reaction to the idea of "kink" used to be anxiety. Now, it's more varied. "Hey, that sounds OK if it's not too hardcore," is an infrequent response. More often it's "Ehw, that's DISGUSTING," or "You'd have to be fucking INSANE to try that, unless you watered it WAY the hell down." And even more often than that, it's "How long can you *possibly* do that without getting bored? That sounds RETARDED," or, more simply, "...but... but... that sounds DUMB."