Post what you're thinking right now.

[Celticgoddess]

I like the insane ones 

She meant too much to me, I;m terrified of intimacy.  Plus, I didn't want to be a notch on her bedpost, before she met her current gf (through me obv  ) she treated all girls as fucks, nothing else.  The reason why I stayed and am still close to her is cause I never let her shag me, I think.

Ahh....that's rough though because you're still close to her and you care about her. I've been in that position before. Not fun.

I think we got to the point where it's platonic.  Although she still says that we should fuck just to see    Or that if she wasn't with G. she'd probably be with me.  Which isn't helpful I guess    By staying friends I'm guaranteed to stay in my eyes as she's already getting bored of her gf, even though a year is like her record - without cheating and all.

Liar,liar. I'm betting it's totally not platonic on your end. But you're right...you're the unattainable for her which makes you a challenge and therefore always interesting. You can't get bored with what you haven't had. She's the one who would break your hear if you gave it to her.

[Adam]

bought a cool wedding present for if anyone i know ever gets married:

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[Celticgoddess]

Can't you create more? There's always some to be had.

I've been with guys for the past 11 years so I'm out of the loop. But I'm single now.

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[Celticgoddess]

bwahaha...I feel like I met my twin. I totally hear what you're saying. I like the flirting but I have no desire to hop the fence again.

[RageBeoulve]

I'm kinda into guys right now    Still like girls but am sick of them.  I mean, just before I made the "jump" and admitted to myself that I'm actually into guys too, I was in a very fucked up situation with two girls.  In short, I went out with J who dumped me cause she was in love with S but went out with H.  She then proceeded to dump H for the same reason she dumped me, H and I hooked up then J went back with H.  Then dumped her again.

 

Lesbians are too insane/emotional.  Men FTW.

 

[renaeden]

I really hate being autistic sometimes.

And we are going to have soft tacos for dinner.

[SleepyDragon]

Thinking two things, actually:

1. All courtship is based on lies, and
2. It's not what you look like, it's who you are.

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[El]

Thinking two things, actually:

1. All courtship is based on lies, and
2. It's not what you look like, it's who you are.

Courtship, I'd tend to agree with.  Not all romantic relationships themselves, though.

[Celticgoddess]

Thinking two things, actually:

1. All courtship is based on lies, and
2. It's not what you look like, it's who you are.

The jury over here is still out on point 1, but I totally agree with point 2. It will be awhile before I take the leap back into relationships. I'm not ready.

[Adam]

it's what you look klike, not what you are

no one gives a shit wqhat i am - they do care what ilook like tho 

[Blasted]

Thinking two things, actually:

1. All courtship is based on lies, and
2. It's not what you look like, it's who you are.

The jury over here is still out on point 1, but I totally agree with point 2. It will be awhile before I take the leap back into relationships. I'm not ready.

Relationships are scary.

[Celticgoddess]

Thinking two things, actually:

1. All courtship is based on lies, and
2. It's not what you look like, it's who you are.

The jury over here is still out on point 1, but I totally agree with point 2. It will be awhile before I take the leap back into relationships. I'm not ready.

Relationships are scary.

They can be. But they can also be incredible. I was married to someone I had known forever (friends for 20 years, together for 10, married for 6) and even though we're not together anymore, I wouldn't trade in that experience for anything. We remain very close friends. He's aspie too.

I have no desire to live with anyone or get married again though.