but i am not sorry for the event nor the results.
i regret some of the instances, however.
if shima is hurt (long lasting variety) then i need to talk to her.
if it was temporary hurt, based upon her regrets, and she is over it, then thats life. we all get hurt, from time to time.
i just want to be certain that i did not cause any long term hurt to someone i respect and consider a friend.
and i am not grilling you. i am just concerned about the way it was phrased.