My ask away thread

[purposefulinsanity]

I've not bothered with starting a thread like this before because I didn't think that there was a need or that anyone would really want to ask me anything anyway.  But I can see that people tend to only have what you've posted about to form ideas about what kind of person you are, so I can see that these threads actually serve more of a purpose than entertainment.

So ask away- I promise to be honest, but I do reserve the right to refuse to answer 

[McGiver]

how many times on average do you wank per week?

[RobertN]

What party do you vote for?

[purposefulinsanity]

how many times on average do you wank per week?

It varies and it depends on a few factors, the most important one being my mood:
If I'm feeling crappy-  around 4 or 5 times.
If I'm feeling good but not currently sex-obsessed- around 9 or 10 times.
If I'm going through a sex-obsessed phase- around 10-15 times.

[purposefulinsanity]

What party to you vote for?

I don't have a hell of a lot of faith in any of the major political parties but I tend to vote tactically.  In the last election I voted Labour because the only other major players in our area were the torries or the BNP- so I voted for the lesser of the 3 evils.

[McGiver]

when you wank, do you wank to completion?

And how noisy is completion for you?

[purposefulinsanity]

when you wank, do you wank to completion?

And how noisy is completion for you?

Yes I usually masturbate until I've had at least one orgasm, I'm usually fairly quite when I wank, which is strange cos I aren't during sex.


Do you have any questions that aren't about wanking??

[McGiver]

you have stated several times that you are open minded about sex:

have you and dunc ever considered mate swapping or swinging?

[purposefulinsanity]

you have stated several times that you are open minded about sex:

have you and dunc ever considered mate swapping or swinging?

That is an interesting question and one that I had to think about whether or not I wanted to answer- basically because I know that some people won't understand and that some will think that's enough information to judge my whole character do, but if people do judge I really don't care.

 I hate the concept of swinging- sex parties, swapping partners, etc- it just isn't something that does anything for me.  But we do have a polyamorous relationship.

[McGiver]

since i am feeling lazy:

will you define  polyamorous?

poly is many
amour is love

What exactly does that mean to you?

[purposefulinsanity]

To me it means not limiting yourself or placing restrictions on your feelings. In practical terms what it means to me is that I have a strong primary relationship and from time to time develop secondary relationships. 

[McGiver]

open!

why would someone judge that?

my relationship is closed, but i am rooting for my wife to find a boyfriend because guess what that means for me?

and i bet its a relief for dunc as well.  i mean he's no longer a 19 year old now is he?


if you wouldn't mind feel free to answe the vague questions in this post.  however you see fit??

[purposefulinsanity]

open!

why would someone judge that?

I don't know why people would judge us for that, but they do- they still see it as 'cheating' or claim that we obviously can't satisfy each other sexually.

my relationship is closed, but i am rooting for my wife to find a boyfriend because guess what that means for me?

You can find one too?? 

 We started with an 'open relationship' with rules about how often we could see other people, ending a sexual relationship with others if we ever thought we might possibly develop any kind of the feelings for the other person.  But eventually we realised it was stupid to place these limits and unrealistic.

and i bet its a relief for dunc as well.  i mean he's no longer a 19 year old now is he?


if you wouldn't mind feel free to answe the vague questions in this post.  however you see fit??

  Since both of us only occasionally develop a secondary relationship we both still have 'satisfy' the other just as much as if we had a closed relationship 




   

[McGiver]

You can find one too?? 

i have a great job, what more does it take?
remember: american women were talking about.

but if that doesnt help me, i live 2 hrs from tijuana,  $30 can buy anything there.

[purposefulinsanity]

You can find one too?? 

i have a great job, what more does it take?
remember: american women were talking about.

but if that doesnt help me, i live 2 hrs from tijuana,  $30 can buy anything there.

Yeah this really does belong in your ask me thread but since the quote is here will ask you here 

Have you ever (or considered) paying a prostitute for sex?