My honest, serious response, is being a parent! In all honesty, I never wanted to be one. I was afraid to pass on the "family curse" to Amber. I was ready to be celibate for the rest of my life rather than bring another life into the family cesspool. If I had married any other person than Carla, there would have been no kids in my life. Don't get me wrong I love kids and am a child advocate against abuse of any and all kinds. In many ways I'm a big goofball and am a kid at heart. A lot of my life now is making up for lost time, while trying my hardest to be a "father".
And in all honesty, I am BLOOD WELL GLAD I GOT A VASECTOMY! One is enough! I love my daughter, but, I have my limits.!