awwwwww, diddums. this is intensity, you fucking wuss - if you want reasonable, go and find some white light channellers, or a board where someone gives a toss about you.
There's a HUGE difference between
caring about the person, and caring enough
about the site to put some thought into
decisions which might effect it.
You are the PRIME example of why the WC
killed itself - rather just post your sex play everywhere,
and took no real interest in what effected the site,
BUT, you insisted on being involved in the discussions,
just to damage the arguments of those you didn't like
personally.