Things that a lone man can't do without arousing suspicion

[DirtDawg]

1. i always wonder about people crossing the street when they see a black man or whatever, don't think it's really weird to cross the street all of a sudden? i'd be too mortified to cross the street if i saw someone i was afraid of. i'm more afraid of acting weird in public. i know it's sick.

2. Hardon just try being a rape victim and proving it. they put the women on trial and make them prove the rape and go through it in detail. it's not an easy thing to go through.

1. They do it intentionally, I have heard enough NT conversations to that effect over the years.
2. How about you try being someone who is falsely accused of rape. Equally as nasty. It seems we have a scenario where women are scared of men because they think they can rape them, and men are cautious of women because they know they can be accused of raping them.

i wouldn't falsely accuse someone of rape. rape victims however aren't given that many choices.

but you're right. both have something to be afraid of. men of being accused and women of ending up the accusers.

I know you wouldnt, but there are lots of unscruplous people out there. For a man to be safe in the UK, they would need to carry breathilzers to show that the woman was not drunk, consent forms, and a video camera to record that the woman didnt say stop in the middle of it. You see the problem.

paranoia - it's all in your head. 

That is what you would legally have to do to be sure of being safe. Of course if you can trust the woman then you wouldnt have to go to that level.

Or if you werent paranoid.

No more paranoid than you. Asides I was just making a point about how screwed up the rape laws are in the country.

I have schizoid personality type so yes you probably are less paranoid than me.
I thought rape was beyond reasonable doubt in this country. I don't know. I may be wrong, in which case you win - i don't know what the prize is but im trying to make some £ on the horse racing at the moment.
Obviously i am not going to get into an intrawebs arguement. 

Here, too, but that's the part that rips victims to shreds, emotionally, destroys their dignity, and prevents many from making an accusation in the first place - even after the horrid event has happened to them and there is a true criminal who deserves to burn in public.

[Christopher McCandless]

1. i always wonder about people crossing the street when they see a black man or whatever, don't think it's really weird to cross the street all of a sudden? i'd be too mortified to cross the street if i saw someone i was afraid of. i'm more afraid of acting weird in public. i know it's sick.

2. Hardon just try being a rape victim and proving it. they put the women on trial and make them prove the rape and go through it in detail. it's not an easy thing to go through.

1. They do it intentionally, I have heard enough NT conversations to that effect over the years.
2. How about you try being someone who is falsely accused of rape. Equally as nasty. It seems we have a scenario where women are scared of men because they think they can rape them, and men are cautious of women because they know they can be accused of raping them.

i wouldn't falsely accuse someone of rape. rape victims however aren't given that many choices.

but you're right. both have something to be afraid of. men of being accused and women of ending up the accusers.

I know you wouldnt, but there are lots of unscruplous people out there. For a man to be safe in the UK, they would need to carry breathilzers to show that the woman was not drunk, consent forms, and a video camera to record that the woman didnt say stop in the middle of it. You see the problem.

paranoia - it's all in your head. 

That is what you would legally have to do to be sure of being safe. Of course if you can trust the woman then you wouldnt have to go to that level.

Or if you werent paranoid.

No more paranoid than you. Asides I was just making a point about how screwed up the rape laws are in the country.

I have schizoid personality type so yes you probably are less paranoid than me.
I thought rape was beyond reasonable doubt in this country. I don't know. I may be wrong, in which case you win - i don't know what the prize is but im trying to make some £ on the horse racing at the moment.
Obviously i am not going to get into an intrawebs arguement. 

The problem is that the system uses Juries. Given that half of your "peers" are going to have an IQ of under 100 and are not going to understand the evidence properly I would be worried about any Jury based trial.

[Kosmonaut]

1. i always wonder about people crossing the street when they see a black man or whatever, don't think it's really weird to cross the street all of a sudden? i'd be too mortified to cross the street if i saw someone i was afraid of. i'm more afraid of acting weird in public. i know it's sick.

2. Hardon just try being a rape victim and proving it. they put the women on trial and make them prove the rape and go through it in detail. it's not an easy thing to go through.

1. They do it intentionally, I have heard enough NT conversations to that effect over the years.
2. How about you try being someone who is falsely accused of rape. Equally as nasty. It seems we have a scenario where women are scared of men because they think they can rape them, and men are cautious of women because they know they can be accused of raping them.

i wouldn't falsely accuse someone of rape. rape victims however aren't given that many choices.

but you're right. both have something to be afraid of. men of being accused and women of ending up the accusers.

I know you wouldnt, but there are lots of unscruplous people out there. For a man to be safe in the UK, they would need to carry breathilzers to show that the woman was not drunk, consent forms, and a video camera to record that the woman didnt say stop in the middle of it. You see the problem.

paranoia - it's all in your head. 

That is what you would legally have to do to be sure of being safe. Of course if you can trust the woman then you wouldnt have to go to that level.

Or if you werent paranoid.

No more paranoid than you. Asides I was just making a point about how screwed up the rape laws are in the country.

I have schizoid personality type so yes you probably are less paranoid than me.
I thought rape was beyond reasonable doubt in this country. I don't know. I may be wrong, in which case you win - i don't know what the prize is but im trying to make some £ on the horse racing at the moment.
Obviously i am not going to get into an intrawebs arguement. 

The problem is that the system uses Juries. Given that half of your "peers" are going to have an IQ of under 100 and are not going to understand the evidence properly I would be worried about any Jury based trial.

I wouldn't be worrying about the members of the juries IQ#.

[SovaNu]

The way things are in some places, many fathers are afraid to hug their children in public for fear of being accused of molesting them. It's insane. What, with all the pointless lawsuits and paranoia. Legislation needs to be put in place to protect people from false accusations, yet protect children at the same time.

I'm still waiting for women who give false rape accusations to be publicly identified and sent to prison.

And for drunken consent?

If you're drunk enough, your inhibitions go out of the window. It's your fault for getting drunk in the first place. If both people are drunk, then neither can be blamed, really. But sober people should know better than to take advantage of drunks.

this fat chick once took advantage of me when i was drunk.  she had all of her friends peer pressure me.

you're so irresistable.

[SovaNu]

you shouldn't have sex with someone you don't trust. have some brains, Hardon.

[Christopher McCandless]

you shouldn't have sex with someone you don't trust. have some brains, Hardon.

People change.

[Callaway]

you shouldn't have sex with someone you don't trust. have some brains, Hardon.

People change.

We know and we are keeping our fingers crossed for you.

 

[McGiver]

you shouldn't have sex with someone you don't trust. have some brains, Hardon.

People change.

We know and we are keeping our fingers crossed for you.

 

baw-haw! 

[DirtDawg]

you shouldn't have sex with someone you don't trust. have some brains, Hardon.

Glaringly obvious.

Notice how everyone tiptoed past my response? Can't be bothered with reality when we are bullshitting about hypotheticals.

[Rabbit From Hell]

1. i always wonder about people crossing the street when they see a black man or whatever, don't think it's really weird to cross the street all of a sudden? i'd be too mortified to cross the street if i saw someone i was afraid of. i'm more afraid of acting weird in public. i know it's sick.

2. Hardon just try being a rape victim and proving it. they put the women on trial and make them prove the rape and go through it in detail. it's not an easy thing to go through.

1. They do it intentionally, I have heard enough NT conversations to that effect over the years.
2. How about you try being someone who is falsely accused of rape. Equally as nasty. It seems we have a scenario where women are scared of men because they think they can rape them, and men are cautious of women because they know they can be accused of raping them.

i wouldn't falsely accuse someone of rape. rape victims however aren't given that many choices.

but you're right. both have something to be afraid of. men of being accused and women of ending up the accusers.

I know you wouldnt, but there are lots of unscruplous people out there. For a man to be safe in the UK, they would need to carry breathilzers to show that the woman was not drunk, consent forms, and a video camera to record that the woman didnt say stop in the middle of it. You see the problem.

paranoia - it's all in your head. 

That is what you would legally have to do to be sure of being safe. Of course if you can trust the woman then you wouldnt have to go to that level.

Or if you werent paranoid.

No more paranoid than you. Asides I was just making a point about how screwed up the rape laws are in the country.

I have schizoid personality type so yes you probably are less paranoid than me.
I thought rape was beyond reasonable doubt in this country. I don't know. I may be wrong, in which case you win - i don't know what the prize is but im trying to make some £ on the horse racing at the moment.
Obviously i am not going to get into an intrawebs arguement. 

The problem is that the system uses Juries. Given that half of your "peers" are going to have an IQ of under 100 and are not going to understand the evidence properly I would be worried about any Jury based trial.

I wouldn't be worrying about the members of the juries IQ#.

That's because you're too stupid to worry you asshole.

[Rabbit From Hell]

1. i always wonder about people crossing the street when they see a black man or whatever, don't think it's really weird to cross the street all of a sudden? i'd be too mortified to cross the street if i saw someone i was afraid of. i'm more afraid of acting weird in public. i know it's sick.

2. Hardon just try being a rape victim and proving it. they put the women on trial and make them prove the rape and go through it in detail. it's not an easy thing to go through.

1. They do it intentionally, I have heard enough NT conversations to that effect over the years.
2. How about you try being someone who is falsely accused of rape. Equally as nasty. It seems we have a scenario where women are scared of men because they think they can rape them, and men are cautious of women because they know they can be accused of raping them.

i wouldn't falsely accuse someone of rape. rape victims however aren't given that many choices.

but you're right. both have something to be afraid of. men of being accused and women of ending up the accusers.

I know you wouldnt, but there are lots of unscruplous people out there. For a man to be safe in the UK, they would need to carry breathilzers to show that the woman was not drunk, consent forms, and a video camera to record that the woman didnt say stop in the middle of it. You see the problem.

paranoia - it's all in your head. 

That is what you would legally have to do to be sure of being safe. Of course if you can trust the woman then you wouldnt have to go to that level.

Or if you werent paranoid.

No more paranoid than you. Asides I was just making a point about how screwed up the rape laws are in the country.

I have schizoid personality type so yes you probably are less paranoid than me.
I thought rape was beyond reasonable doubt in this country. I don't know. I may be wrong, in which case you win - i don't know what the prize is but im trying to make some £ on the horse racing at the moment.
Obviously i am not going to get into an intrawebs arguement. 

Well, at least you know you've won the KING ASSHOLE award.

[Rabbit From Hell]

1. i always wonder about people crossing the street when they see a black man or whatever, don't think it's really weird to cross the street all of a sudden? i'd be too mortified to cross the street if i saw someone i was afraid of. i'm more afraid of acting weird in public. i know it's sick.

2. Hardon just try being a rape victim and proving it. they put the women on trial and make them prove the rape and go through it in detail. it's not an easy thing to go through.

1. They do it intentionally, I have heard enough NT conversations to that effect over the years.
2. How about you try being someone who is falsely accused of rape. Equally as nasty. It seems we have a scenario where women are scared of men because they think they can rape them, and men are cautious of women because they know they can be accused of raping them.

i wouldn't falsely accuse someone of rape. rape victims however aren't given that many choices.

but you're right. both have something to be afraid of. men of being accused and women of ending up the accusers.

I know you wouldnt, but there are lots of unscruplous people out there. For a man to be safe in the UK, they would need to carry breathilzers to show that the woman was not drunk, consent forms, and a video camera to record that the woman didnt say stop in the middle of it. You see the problem.

paranoia - it's all in your head. 

That is what you would legally have to do to be sure of being safe. Of course if you can trust the woman then you wouldnt have to go to that level.

Or if you werent paranoid.

One doesn't have to paranoid to be around you because one can always count on you being an asshole.