The problem with women

[Christopher McCandless]

Well, I brought it up to try and resolve it. 

It didn't resolve anything, so I'll accept that you are willing to hang on to your current opinions of me and leave it at that.

I'm not walking away from an argument, it just seems that if I discuss it, I'm a whinger,

if I ignore it, I'm walking away from dealing with the issue.

Ditto- since its hard to resolve any issue if you won't listen to the other person's point of view.

I have listened.  I just didn't realise everyone was so determined to believe I was a bitch, when in the past when I've genuinely offered my condolences about various things, they seem to think I am sincere and caring.  Now all of a sudden I'm heartless and self centred.

I'm all for mature discussion and debate, but I left high school 20 years ago.

Its an internet forum, unfortuantly. Its impossible for people to know whether or not people say what they mean, or how someone really is. People lie online too easily, im afraid.

[duncvis]

since, as she already stated, that she felt ganged up on by dunc and PI, i think that perhaps she had the right to get a little defensive.

to be honest, she brought my involvement on herself (again - the first time I only chimed in after she spat her dummy out over popcorn) - if she hadn't been rinsing the sand out of her vagina about what she thought my comment meant (despite being told she was wrong already) I would have ignored her self obsessed drivelling like I usually do. there is no gang up, except in her head.  So the fact that she kicked off at DD just illustrates her inflated sense of her own importance.

DITTO'ed

Oh, like we all don't have such?

only you narcissists.

[Calandale]

only you narcissists.

Really? I mean, doesn't your own life
revolve around yourself, and those
you care about?

[duncvis]

not exclusively, no. and I don't assume the world revolves around me and everyone else does or should give a fuck about me, like someone with an inflated sense of their own importance does.

[Christopher McCandless]

not exclusively, no. and I don't assume the world revolves around me and everyone else does or should give a fuck about me, like someone with an inflated sense of their own importance does.

Everyone is selfish, Dunc. Some are just more blatently than others.

[Calandale]

not exclusively, no. and I don't assume the world revolves around me and everyone else does or should give a fuck about me, like someone with an inflated sense of their own importance does.

Everyone is selfish, Dunc. Some are just more blatently than others.

QFT.

Indeed, every ACT is selfish - or so I was once convinced.
Now, I'm not positive, but nearly every one certainly is.

[duncvis]

You're both missing the point. Meh. :wallbutt:

[Christopher McCandless]

You're both missing the point. Meh. :wallbutt:

I get the point, i just accept it, where as you want to change things in this respect. You are fighting a losing battle.

[Calandale]

You're both missing the point. Meh. :wallbutt:

Nah, I get your point. I'm not sure I can fathom
that someone could extend their senses beyond
themselves, and thus fully accept that there is
some external world.

I only responded to Haddycakes because I agree with
the point HE made. You were probably assuming that
we were all revolving around you, or somethin'.

[duncvis]

I only responded to Haddycakes because I agree with
the point HE made. You were probably assuming that
we were all revolving around you, or somethin'.

very cute. smart arse.

[Calandale]

 

[Eclair]

Oh, I'm so offended.  Try harder you fat sexually frustrated cunt.  Or are you going to send your wife out to round up some boys to spice up your sex life tonight?  Do I feel insulted by you.  I think not.

Damn, its a hard life being married to a filthy-minded nympho.

And this, from someone who started this thread bitching about people being judgmental and narrow minded? Are you attempting to have a dig at our open relationship? LOL, the fucking irony.

Now I hope you see my point 

I find the career dig judgemental.  That's why I brought that up, to prove my point.  We have different things but they are things that we get judged for Dunc.

Calling me a whinger is just the same as me if I called your wife a whinger when the kids annoy her at the computer or you whinge about not being able to get diagnosed.

The fact is, what one person 'whinges' about is what gets them down, may be something totally different to someone else.  I whinge about having to go to work sometimes, but I know I'm damn lucky to be able to get a job.  PI whinges about the kids, but I bet there isn't a day she wouldn't give her life for them.

Oh dear. I wasn't calling you a whinger. I was calling you a hypocrite.  And what part of this:

my snipe about your ability to climb the career ladder was pointed at your constant wails of 'nobody understands me' and 'I'm being misinterpreted - yet this doesn't seem to have applied in the workplace to any meaningful extent.

is failing to get through your forcefield? :wallbutt:

LMAO at you screaming at DirtDawg after assuming he was referring to you. Nice one Mimi.

I had quite some time off work because of some difficulties I had.

[Scrapheap]

Would someone mind explaining what this argument is all about??

[Eclair]

Would someone mind explaining what this argument is all about??

I was right and won the argument, that's all you need to know.

[McGiver]

Would someone mind explaining what this argument is all about??

I was right and won the argument, that's all you need to know.

i think the safe approach would be for everyone to agree with this statement.