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Thing is Eclair- I never said you shouldn't complain about the stresses you have going on in your life. We all have our stresses, just like we all decide where we place our priorities in life- if we were all the same this place would just be another WP.
Quote from: purposefulinsanity on August 02, 2007, 05:05:57 PMThing is Eclair- I never said you shouldn't complain about the stresses you have going on in your life. We all have our stresses, just like we all decide where we place our priorities in life- if we were all the same this place would just be another WP. No, but when I am posting something in a thread that is not offensive in my mind at the time I'm posting it, it pisses me off that every single post is somehow misconstrued into something else. And that's not whinging. I just find it IMMENSELY frustrating that judgements are made on what people think my 'persona' is, therefore, my post must have been bitchy in their opiniion. And they are wrong, so fucking wrong.Which is a load of bullshit I am completely sick of.
But these things happen with people who have communication difficulties and difficulties reading between the lines- this is what I tried to explain before- without the emoticons it can be hard for me to tell when someone I don't know all that well is making a joke. But I've said all this before and all it got me was a 'fuck off'- this is why it seems that you want understanding for your communication problems, but don't accept that other people have them too.
Quote from: purposefulinsanity on August 02, 2007, 05:17:47 PMBut these things happen with people who have communication difficulties and difficulties reading between the lines- this is what I tried to explain before- without the emoticons it can be hard for me to tell when someone I don't know all that well is making a joke. But I've said all this before and all it got me was a 'fuck off'- this is why it seems that you want understanding for your communication problems, but don't accept that other people have them too. Well on that ocassion, I actually think you were pissed off at me and wanted to cause an argument so you jumped down my throat.
Quote from: Eclair on August 02, 2007, 05:11:47 PMQuote from: purposefulinsanity on August 02, 2007, 05:05:57 PMThing is Eclair- I never said you shouldn't complain about the stresses you have going on in your life. We all have our stresses, just like we all decide where we place our priorities in life- if we were all the same this place would just be another WP. No, but when I am posting something in a thread that is not offensive in my mind at the time I'm posting it, it pisses me off that every single post is somehow misconstrued into something else. And that's not whinging. I just find it IMMENSELY frustrating that judgements are made on what people think my 'persona' is, therefore, my post must have been bitchy in their opiniion. And they are wrong, so fucking wrong.Which is a load of bullshit I am completely sick of.For what its worth, i dont think your posts are particuarly bitchy at all.
Quote from: Hadron on August 02, 2007, 05:15:30 PMQuote from: Eclair on August 02, 2007, 05:11:47 PMQuote from: purposefulinsanity on August 02, 2007, 05:05:57 PMThing is Eclair- I never said you shouldn't complain about the stresses you have going on in your life. We all have our stresses, just like we all decide where we place our priorities in life- if we were all the same this place would just be another WP. No, but when I am posting something in a thread that is not offensive in my mind at the time I'm posting it, it pisses me off that every single post is somehow misconstrued into something else. And that's not whinging. I just find it IMMENSELY frustrating that judgements are made on what people think my 'persona' is, therefore, my post must have been bitchy in their opiniion. And they are wrong, so fucking wrong.Which is a load of bullshit I am completely sick of.For what its worth, i dont think your posts are particuarly bitchy at all.Thanks, but I think that just proves that I must come across a stuck up
My addiction IS my work, so what is the problem with that?
Your IT guy is an asshole. My husband has problems with his IT guy too because he is a security Nazi who is focused on stupid things that don't really matter while ignoring bigger things that would matter even more. I wonder if this is a common problem with IT guys.
Quote from: Eclair on August 02, 2007, 05:22:52 PMQuote from: purposefulinsanity on August 02, 2007, 05:17:47 PMBut these things happen with people who have communication difficulties and difficulties reading between the lines- this is what I tried to explain before- without the emoticons it can be hard for me to tell when someone I don't know all that well is making a joke. But I've said all this before and all it got me was a 'fuck off'- this is why it seems that you want understanding for your communication problems, but don't accept that other people have them too. Well on that ocassion, I actually think you were pissed off at me and wanted to cause an argument so you jumped down my throat.And yet you get pissed off at other people for assuming the same about you. No, I wasn't. But no matter what I say it seems you'll make you own assumptions.
Dunc got involved when you had a go at him for posting this emoticon - something which people do all the time when people are arguing-do you see people jumping down their throats for it? Like I said to you before- just because Dunc doesn't like you it doesn't mean that I have to share his opinion. I don't really know you enough to know if I dislike you, although I could echo your 'what you really think of me' based on recent comments you've made.When I explained that I didn't get that you'd been joking you didn't accept that then and you don't seem willing to accept that now, so is there any point in my even bothering to help you flog this dead horse?