Peegai, how old is your tortoise?
Fluorescent i was never upset by the scenario, and i was never planning to hide from intensity, i just felt it may be better for certain members if i left, especially if there was gonna continue to be internal squabbles. This site needs to move on, not get dragged down.
There was also the issue of certain people (me being one) being labelled a bully or attacking vulnerable people, you apparently being one of the people i supposedly attacked/bullied (prob the only), as far as i was concerned i didnt "attack" you, i made an honest, upfront observation and commented in a post in the HG is hot as hell thread a while back, which you replied to. Sure you probably didnt understand the context the post was in, and probably didnt like what i said, but you didnt overreacte, or resort to a personal vendetta or exploit the situation etc the way 2 members who consider themselves "non-vulnerable" (which is debatable) did with another issue.
I simply ignore you fluorescent because i dont see the point in discussing things with you if you dont understand what im trying to say, and you keep taking things out of context etc, even when its advice. I find it best to ignore you, rather than say something which is misunderstood invoking arrogant childish responses from you, or something that may have a negative effect on you. I appreciate i dont know you in RL but im judging by the way youve responded in the past on intensity.
I think i already said in a PM to someone when dicussing a different issue, Even though we dont have anything in common and i find parts of your personality unappealing as do you probably mine. That i was surprised that you someone who is considered "vulnerable" can handle intensity and criticism etc alot better than people who are not meant to be. (yes that is a compliment even though we dont see eye to eye on certain things)
You can take that how you like.
Ive been asked by a lot of people to stay at Intensity. Which is the only reason i didnt leave straightaway. Im still thinking about it, if me being here can help other members speak out, and help intensity get back on track etc, then yeah i may stay. But i dont want to cause a divide between certain members considering two people dont want me here and wont be happy others want me to stay. I came here to be open, honest etc, debate on important issues etc, not get envolved in petty squabbles, bitching, or people exploting conversations in order to try and discredit or get rid of individuals they dont like, or who arent as weak as them etc.
But yes anyways hope that answers your question.
