Since I came to this thread after a few days off, my tuppence worth is that, I hope you stay.
As for taking any notes about what you wanted in an ideal man, alas you misjudge my question. Unlike the droves of men who who writhe and squirm in the dust at your feet, whining/begging for the slightest glance of favor from you. I shall respectfully admire your refreshingly honest mind and enigmatic eyes from across the ocean, honor AND testicles INTACT!
As Clint Eastwood said in the movie, "Dirty Harry", "A man's just got to know his limitations!"
And at my age and self awareness, I'm all too aware and really quite comfortable within them, but, with just enough dis-satisfaction to work on trying to improve myself as much as I can. Then again, I still don't know what I want to be when I grow up!
So.....question, errr, uuuhhhhhhh, oh yes............who are the people you admire most??
<ozymandias bows respectfully and then crawls off to bed after driving 513 miles in one day>