I am trying to get across to you that there are all kinds of people who are not socialized because of how they grew up. Some families have no friends and don't deal with the neighbors. They live in a city far away from their extended family. These people grow up isolated. They are not trained on a daily basis to interact with others. If you see these people in public, you might say "They have Aspergers". Baloney! They have no social skills because of living in isolation in their home. All they need to do is train themselves for a year or so, just like training to go skating or something, and then they will be social just like everyone else.
my mother has four children (including me). my brothers, sister and i had almost identical childhoods - we were all raised by the same parent, had the same cultural influences and the same education. why did my mother's attempts to encourage her children grow-up in to socially well-adjusted people succeed with my brothers and sister, but not on me?
the only difference between me and my brothers and sister is that i have a different father to the rest of them. my father exhibits the same communication problems as i do. if that doesn't clearly indicate a genetic problem - rather than a psychological one - then, i don't know what does.
i am not saying that i am sick. what i
am saying is that society puts me at a disadvantage because of the standards that it imposes on me. i have seen less qualified people (who are less intelligent than me) get promoted above me too many times, just because they know how to cultivate friendships with colleagues better than i can. that is just one example.
Then you would be walking around saying " i have made my best progress since i met that guy Happeh (age 22)."
i think i speak for everyone when i say, "what the fuck, what the fuck, what the fucking fucking fuck?!!" ?