I can't find a single thing which paints the word volcel the way you have, maybe that will change but for now I'm fine with accepting it's an abbreviated term for voluntary celibate for various reasons and that's exactly what it means according to the interwebs. MGTOW does seem to have more to it, so maybe it's like squares and rectangles. MGTOWs are vocels, but not all volcels are MTOW.
Same. I put a shedload of Googling into
just being blatantly stupid and dishonest
more fool me (could have easily done that off the top of my head). Urban Dictionary's top definition of Incel is right in line with what wretch (and the rest of us) think. By contrast, UD's definition of vocel is completely non-prejudicial. What's more, there seems to be no self-defined "vocel community", unlike incels, so, right now, its a label that is put on you by others, not a label that you own. If you happen to be voluntarily celibate, can you reasonably say "Oh no! Im not vocel?"" Going by currently available definitions (leaving wretch's definition aside) that would be nonsensical, much like saying "No I'm not a Tory, i'm a member of the Conservative party"
Urban dictionary are no different to my anecdotes, but you only have to look up the likes of MGTOW to see for yourself on how they're practically incels in denial.
yeah , I did, actually. And that doesn't affect the definition of vocel.
Anyway, I'm through with this little discussion now. Started off as a bit of friendly banter, would have much preferred it to stay that way.