Disagree if you want, but anyone who simply doesn't want to have sex isn't automatically a vocel. Are asexuals vocel? No. You might think they are because technically they do not want to have sex, but they don't subscribe to the attitudes or rhetoric that identifies them as being vocel. Vocels do it due to their hatred of women because of bad experiences in the past eg. not getting sex to begin with, or simply having far too high of standards of what they expect from women, which is why it's practically just incel in denial. They use the exact same rhetoric too.
Same with incels - not being able to get sex doesn't automatically make you one, again it's the attitude and rhetoric.
It's basically the whiny mantra, "nice guys finish last", wrapped up in different forms.