I just want to say this first, I am not gay.? You can;t mess around, because you are waisting their time sorting through their difficulties of obtaining an eligible partner. Its will be distessing to them, ounce they figure out what you did. I am not distressed in that way, I am distressed in another way. Sexual comments maid to a person who is not gay is distressing, even if they try and pretend its a female, which is what I did. That is what truama did, ok Peter? If you say it again it breaks down the barrier and makes me sick. I should not do that anyway because I am not gay, and thus is leading them on.