Interrogate PMS Elle!

[El]

FRIEEEEEEENNNNNDS? 

KITTY KITTY FRIENDS KITTY?

[Blasted]

FRIEEEEEEENNNNNDS? 

KITTY KITTY FRIENDS KITTY?

Aww, kitty run away! 

[McGiver]

are you PMSing right now?

[El]

are you PMSing right now?

I don't think so.  Why?

[McGiver]

are you PMSing right now?

I don't think so.  Why?

i just thought you were being a little snippy with (i think it was) benji.

[El]

are you PMSing right now?

I don't think so.  Why?

i just thought you were being a little snippy with (i think it was) benji.

Probably was benji.  He's a member I admittedly tend to get into more conflicts with than most.

[McGiver]

are you PMSing right now?

I don't think so.  Why?

i just thought you were being a little snippy with (i think it was) benji.

Probably was benji.  He's a member I admittedly tend to get into more conflicts with than most.

it appeared that you were stalking him just to put him in his place.

though it could have been that i just happened to read threads in a particular order that made it seem as if that were the case.

[El]

are you PMSing right now?

I don't think so.  Why?

i just thought you were being a little snippy with (i think it was) benji.

Probably was benji.  He's a member I admittedly tend to get into more conflicts with than most.

it appeared that you were stalking him just to put him in his place.

though it could have been that i just happened to read threads in a particular order that made it seem as if that were the case.

I think there was a period of time where we were having the same or similar conversations in several threads, if that's what you mean.

[McGiver]

are you PMSing right now?

I don't think so.  Why?

i just thought you were being a little snippy with (i think it was) benji.

Probably was benji.  He's a member I admittedly tend to get into more conflicts with than most.

it appeared that you were stalking him just to put him in his place.

though it could have been that i just happened to read threads in a particular order that made it seem as if that were the case.

I think there was a period of time where we were having the same or similar conversations in several threads, if that's what you mean.

i was under the impression that he was flirting with you.  a little awkwardly, but flirting nonetheless.

[El]

i was under the impression that he was flirting with you.  a little awkwardly, but flirting nonetheless.

I got that impression as well.  I felt that he was doing so- alternately with attacking me when I showed any sign of not being into it (either by disagreeing/arguing with him directly, or by mentioning the relationship I am currently in).  That kind of pattern tends to make me think the person flirting probably has no interest in me whatsoever as anything but a gatekeeper for boobs and vag.  It's a shitty feeling.  I don't tend to react to it in a friendly way.

I know you'll probably chalk it up to being the way "the game" is "played," and as something I shouldn't take personally.  I'm not going to go into a corner and cry if some random dude on the internet gives me the impression that he's interacting with me mainly/solely as something he wants to put his cock in, but I do think it's pretty expectable that I in turn "get snippy" with him.

[McGiver]

i was under the impression that he was flirting with you.  a little awkwardly, but flirting nonetheless.

I got that impression as well.  I felt that he was doing so- alternately with attacking me when I showed any sign of not being into it (either by disagreeing/arguing with him directly, or by mentioning the relationship I am currently in).  That kind of pattern tends to make me think the person flirting probably has no interest in me whatsoever as anything but a gatekeeper for boobs and vag.  It's a shitty feeling.  I don't tend to react to it in a friendly way.

I know you'll probably chalk it up to being the way "the game" is "played," and as something I shouldn't take personally.  I'm not going to go into a corner and cry if some random dude on the internet gives me the impression that he's interacting with me mainly/solely as something he wants to put his cock in, but I do think it's pretty expectable that I in turn "get snippy" with him.

so then it is a defensive mechanism after the mention of your relationship with another guy failed?
i get that.

and no, i think the game could be played alot better than what i was reading.

[El]

so then it is a defensive mechanism after the mention of your relationship with another guy failed?
i get that.

I'm not sure I get what you said tbh.  Not trying to grammar nazi but I do think it's the grammar that's confusing me, in the case of that particular sentence.  Clarify?

This may answer your question though- I just noticed that he got really bitchy all of a sudden in one or two threads in the sex forum awhile back (couple of weeks ago, maybe?) when I mentioned the relationship I'm in right now.  (I think I made it clear in those threads what I thought of that.)

and no, i think the game could be played alot better than what i was reading.

I said he was playing it, not playing it well.   

[McGiver]

i thought that your snippy responses was a defensive mechanism that you used only after you made it clear that you had a significant other and he still didn't give up with the awkward flirting.

[El]

i thought that your snippy responses was a defensive mechanism that you used only after you made it clear that you had a significant other and he still didn't give up with the awkward flirting.

Oh, lol, no, that's not it.  Frankly it's not the flirting that makes me snippy, either. I'm a chick on a forum on the internet, and a forum for folks on the spectrum to boot- I can deal with the flirting.  If he was hitting on my in front of my boyfriend IRL it would piss me off, but I do have a sense of perspective, and he hasn't been being freakishly obscene or anything.

What bugs me is the sense that that is his main, or only, agenda.  That's something I get from the far-less-friendly reactions to signs of disinterest or unavailability on my part, as well as other various bits of interaction I've had with him.  Almost like, in his mind, I'm being somehow unfiar or unkind in denying him what he'd ideally be getting from me.

Taking you/your interactions with me as an example- you posted in another thread recebtly that you'd pay 25% of my college loans to see 25% of my vagina.  It was an amusing comment and I wasn't at all offended.  You make flirty/obscene remarks to me on here but they don't tend to bug me because I don't really get the impression that most of your interactinos with me are in one way or another geared toward getting into my pants.  You're (last you talked about it) married and halfway across the country from me, and know for that and for other reasons that's not in the cards, and you don't interact like you have any resentment toward me for it.  'At's prolly at the heart of why you can ask for pics of my ladybits on a regular basis and not piss me off by doing so.

[McGiver]

yes.  i am safe. lol.


i read your last reply with great interest.  it seems to me that i am NOT a girl on a message board on the internet.  and i don't understand the pressures, real or imagined, that you get.
i would agree that men do, in large part, look at women as sex objects.  and, you have every right to object to being treated like this.  but it won't change anything.  men are horny bastards.  i would have thought that now, at your age, that you would have learned to deal with or ignore this.