Hello

[Calandale]

I'm not doubting the raped part, but I'm doubting the drunk part. 

How could you doubt that?

[Soph]

I'm not doubting the raped part, but I'm doubting the drunk part. 

She's definately drunk lol

are you there in the room with her??

No but I can tell

[McGiver]

and making false allegations of rape!

And how the fuck would you know whether it's a false allegation or not?
Asshole.

She claims to be drunk and has made a number of conflicting statements. That draws suspicion to anything else she says, as well.

you know what??? when someone is speaking of something as terrible as rape, the benefit of the doubt should always apply. jesus. being raped is a fucking nightmare that never goes away. ever.

same for the man who is being accused.

Seeing that there is no case being conducted here,
it doesn't seem to be an issue AT ALL. There is no
'man' named - I'm assuming that none of us know
this person (with an exception), so there's no reputation
at stake.

but there is a lesson here.

she seems to want attention.  what are we teaching her?

[SchmooSpoons]

i have ti admiyt i l;ove attention ignore mer if you dont believe it

[willow]

and making false allegations of rape!

And how the fuck would you know whether it's a false allegation or not?
Asshole.

She claims to be drunk and has made a number of conflicting statements. That draws suspicion to anything else she says, as well.

you know what??? when someone is speaking of something as terrible as rape, the benefit of the doubt should always apply. jesus. being raped is a fucking nightmare that never goes away. ever.

same for the man who is being accused.

Seeing that there is no case being conducted here,
it doesn't seem to be an issue AT ALL. There is no
'man' named - I'm assuming that none of us know
this person (with an exception), so there's no reputation
at stake.

but there is a lesson here.

she seems to want attention.  what are we teaching her?

what an idiot statement.

[Calandale]

and making false allegations of rape!

And how the fuck would you know whether it's a false allegation or not?
Asshole.

She claims to be drunk and has made a number of conflicting statements. That draws suspicion to anything else she says, as well.

you know what??? when someone is speaking of something as terrible as rape, the benefit of the doubt should always apply. jesus. being raped is a fucking nightmare that never goes away. ever.

same for the man who is being accused.

Seeing that there is no case being conducted here,
it doesn't seem to be an issue AT ALL. There is no
'man' named - I'm assuming that none of us know
this person (with an exception), so there's no reputation
at stake.

but there is a lesson here.

she seems to want attention.  what are we teaching her?

That you get that attention from people who can't
keep their mouths shut about denying the accusation?

[McGiver]

 

[Calandale]

By which, of course, I meant you.
There ain't a hell of a lot of attention
here, EXCEPT in response to your unfounded
accusation.

[willow]

By which, of course, I meant you.
There ain't a hell of a lot of attention
here, EXCEPT in response to your unfounded
accusation.

[McGiver]

By which, of course, I meant you.
There ain't a hell of a lot of attention
here, EXCEPT in response to your unfounded
accusation.

agreed.

i went out on a limb on this one.

i will let it die there, given my lack of empathy, here.

[SchmooSpoons]

woiiwzera

[DirtDawg]

yoiull get a rebvuttel from everyonwe herew!

You will need better bait than that to troll here. Seriously, are you expecting someone to tell you that you deserved to be raped?

What else have you heard?

and making false allegations of rape!

And how the fuck would you know whether it's a false allegation or not?
Asshole.

She claims to be drunk and has made a number of conflicting statements. That draws suspicion to anything else she says, as well.

you know what??? when someone is speaking of something as terrible as rape, the benefit of the doubt should always apply. jesus. being raped is a fucking nightmare that never goes away. ever.

Of course it is and I agree, STRONGLY, but there is nothing to prove, either way, except that she is drunk and trolling. She also told us she was here to have some fun. Which do we believe. All of it?

I truly hope she does not know how serious a subject she has brought up and that she is truly just being an R-Soul.

I just think, right or wrong, when someone is saying they were raped, you give them the benefit of the doubt. if they are bullshitting, there is a lifetime to berate them. if they aren't...there are only moments to maybe reach them.

I was raped when I was a child...just 14...by someone I loved and trusted. I am *still* scarred by that...and I am 34. it has tainted every relationship I have had....haunted most of my dreams.

when someone says they have been raped, regardless of *how* they say it, the benefit of the doubt should always be given. too many people here are mocking, challenging, disbelieving. that is just so sad.

It is horrible what happened to you and I am at a loss to say anything of value, so for now, I will just say I am sorry for you and that I do understand a little bit.

Believe me, I am not mocking or minimizing the charge of rape, quite the opposite. In fact, I don't disbelieve that she was raped.  What I disbelieve is why she would come here and say this and presume to act like it was no big deal whether anyone believes her or not. Giving her the benefit of the doubt, it IS a big deal and I hope she can find some help. This is most definitely not the place for her to seek help.

I am on the same limb as McJ, ..... so, I will stop sawing on it, now.

[Callaway]

but iw as asking for it you know? i chose to meet him for cigaretes and i drank so i asked for it lol

You didn't ask to be raped.  Meeting a man for a smoke and drinking his vodka is not asking to be raped.  If there is a reason you can't tell your mom, I hope that you can tell someone you trust about this so you can get some help.  Willow is right.  Being raped can be a nightmare that never goes away.

By the way, please check your Private Messages.

[richard]

schmoospoons, aka starbuline isnt 18 and over, im not trying to be an ass as i like her but shouldnt she be banned?

[Callaway]

schmoospoons, aka starbuline isnt 18 and over, im not trying to be an ass as i like her but shouldnt she be banned?

I just took care of it, Richard.

She can sign up again on her 18th birthday.