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Re: Ask QuirkyCarla Anything
« Reply #570 on: July 03, 2006, 09:00:33 PM »
My job's going okay. A lot of my co-workers are nice, but I have no idea how to go about making friends with anyone.

Simple.  You must first find out if about them.  There is plenty of disfunctional people who it would be best for you not to hang around with, or you just could not have much fun with. Ask questions, get into a conversation. Maybe when other coworkers are talking you could but in put some of your own imput. That would be an opportunity to make infrences about people at your job.  Get involved with there life.  Maybe you and this person can do something together. You have already done most of those things with me.

If you were president of the world, what would your first action be?

Easier said than done.

I would probably try to establish some sort of peace...with Bush and other corrupt leaders powerless, there might be a chance for it. Yeah, I'm kind of a hippie.

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Re: Ask QuirkyCarla Anything
« Reply #571 on: July 04, 2006, 03:39:58 AM »
I highlighted things to make them clearer and more intresting.  I highlighted every thing in my favorite color green, but  techinically it should be fluorescent green.  I put what you said in blue because its your favorite color.

Simple.  You must first find out if about them.  There is plenty of disfunctional people who it would be best for you not to hang around with, or
you just could not have much fun with. Ask questions, get into a conversation. Maybe when other coworkers are talking you could but in put some of your own imput. That would be an opportunity to make infrences about people at your job.  Get involved with there life.  Maybe you and this person can do something together. 

I forgot one thing, it looks weird if you ask a bunch of questions in a row.  Its almost like what the police do to criminals, and  that would make you look creepy. People should not judge like that, but just to be safe I would not suggest doing that.  I would try starting a conversation and then throw a questions in there. Honestly I did not know these things at first.  I think about a way in which I could do it, and what I sound like. It figure things out rapidly. Another words, I just thought about it, and I figured it out in 2 seconds.
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Easier said than done.

That right there is might be overstimulation.  That might be what I get too.  Keep practicing relaxation exercises and it will stop.  It does for me anyway. Some it does not occur at all for me. The world needs more people like you.
I miss you.

As of 10:17am, your post rate .0702 a minute and mine is .775 posts a minute.  You logged off at 12:00midnight.  Does this make you feal better about post whoreing?

I should have been more specific.  I think you fealt dissappointed, but the whole world is not going to come crashing down. I just got upset, and that is why I forgot to be more specific.  I don't want to make you look like a nut, especially since you are not.  You know I can't stand to see a woman upset to any level, especially one of my friends.

I fucked up, mine is supposed to have a .0 in front(.0775).  You post whore!
I like it too!

Who takes you to work?
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Biggest bullshitter on the web, the person who is says that is a jealous wanker who needs some personal devolpement.

Spread your legs woman!

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Re: Ask QuirkyCarla Anything
« Reply #572 on: July 04, 2006, 08:24:38 PM »
My mom.

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Re: Ask QuirkyCarla Anything
« Reply #573 on: July 05, 2006, 12:33:36 AM »
besides sweets, what is your food guilty pleasure?
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Re: Ask QuirkyCarla Anything
« Reply #574 on: July 05, 2006, 12:35:11 AM »
French fries. Definitely french fries.

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Re: Ask QuirkyCarla Anything
« Reply #575 on: July 05, 2006, 12:42:33 AM »
crispy?
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Re: Ask QuirkyCarla Anything
« Reply #576 on: July 05, 2006, 12:44:09 AM »
I like crispy. I like basically any kind of fries as long as they're cooked.

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Re: Ask QuirkyCarla Anything
« Reply #577 on: July 05, 2006, 12:48:50 AM »
do they have to have ketchup, or just a little salr will suffice for you?
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Re: Ask QuirkyCarla Anything
« Reply #578 on: July 05, 2006, 12:51:28 AM »
Some fries need ketchup, some don't.

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Re: Ask QuirkyCarla Anything
« Reply #579 on: July 05, 2006, 01:00:51 AM »
What is your favorite type of fry?

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Re: Ask QuirkyCarla Anything
« Reply #580 on: July 05, 2006, 11:19:45 PM »
I really like Burger King fries or cheese fries from a diner.

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Re: Ask QuirkyCarla Anything
« Reply #581 on: July 05, 2006, 11:44:00 PM »
remember when you showed up at the front door of I².  and you were immediately called out by RobertN and omega and eamonn had issues as well.

my question is this:

Are you proud of the fact that all three of them were able to overcome initial personal differences and cast votes for you as an administrator (before eamonn abstained he had voted for you). and RobertN, the original person to call you out put you at the top of his list?

Do you have anythoughts about forgiveness, and how important it is when establishing mutual respect in a communal setting?
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« Reply #582 on: July 06, 2006, 12:07:39 AM »
I remember that.

Yes, I am proud, and I'm especially happy about RobertN since the reason he called me out in the first place was because I had started with him. I'm glad it happened though since I'm now aware of my previous misjudgements.

I think forgiveness is important because it's unhealthy to stay angry and hold grudges, and it's also better to try to find out the other person's side of the story before getting angry (though we're all human). It's important in a communal setting because most altercations are a result of miscommunication, especially on the forums, and it's silly to hold a grudge over a miscommunication.

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Re: Ask QuirkyCarla Anything
« Reply #583 on: July 06, 2006, 12:10:11 AM »
I remember that.

Yes, I am proud, and I'm especially happy about RobertN since the reason he called me out in the first place was because I had started with him. I'm glad it happened though since I'm now aware of my previous misjudgements.

I think forgiveness is important because it's unhealthy to stay angry and hold grudges, and it's also better to try to find out the other person's side of the story before getting angry (though we're all human). It's important in a communal setting because most altercations are a result of miscommunication, especially on the forums, and it's silly to hold a grudge over a miscommunication.
no matter what, i will be back in three months to offer you my top vote.

what an excellent answer.
thanks QC.

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Re: Ask QuirkyCarla Anything
« Reply #584 on: July 06, 2006, 12:16:47 AM »
Thanks. I love you too. *hugs*