Actually i dont really know any of you people but i admire the fact that purposefulinsanity looks after her own children HERSELF.
There are too many mothers who dont, and lumber their kids on to other people, or who go out to work rather than be a fulltime mother (of course there are sometimes exceptions where theres no other alternative).
But if women cant look after their kids themselves, cant provide for them etc its simple they shouldnt get pregnant.
So Purposeful......big thumbs up to you from me regarding you looking after your kids yourself.