The only way for everyone to get what they want is anarchy. Doesn't mean breaking windows and throwing chairs.
Certainly doesn't mean everyone will get what they want.
This is a contradictory statement, as far as I see.
AND, if everyone can't get what they want, well,
I'm more than happy if it's just me who does.
I was well aware of that. Why should we get what we want anyhow? Eliminate expectations and you will fail to be disappointed.
drewtheyellow hits the nail on the head, government and morals collide at some point though, and this is often guided by religion.
Morals are required for people to coexist, which people seem to have a penchant for. We have to try to think the same in order to each get what we want, i.e. we must all want the same things.
I've read about some forms of anarchic society as you mention, and neither will I agree to anarchism for the same reason you state.