Just say no!

[Eclair]

i disagree.  i really don't know most of the women here to accept that what you said is true.  neither do you.

however, i would agree that most of the women here CLAIM to not be that way.

but my real lifes experience has told me that is not likely.  then again, it could be that i am from southern california....the phoney capitol of the world.

One quick question because I really have to log off now.

Do you think I'm putting on an act when I claim not to be that way??  (self-obsessed I know, but its something that I've been accused of before so tough shit).

PI, i have gotten to know you better than most of the people here.  maybe all the people.

you have shown amazing consistency.  i don't see you as someone who puts on an act.  though sometimes you are controlled by your insecurities, which holds you back a bit.
you are one of the best people i have ever had the pleasure of knowing.

Well I'm at least glad PI has not been tarred with the same brush as me.
Hope one day you can tell me why I am in fact the one who is fake.

[McGiver]

eclair,

I thought it was a general discussion myself.  I was teasing about the crassmess of the in house pussy statement...why do you jump down on me and no-one else?

for some reason you make me feel insecure.

[McGiver]

i disagree.  i really don't know most of the women here to accept that what you said is true.  neither do you.

however, i would agree that most of the women here CLAIM to not be that way.

but my real lifes experience has told me that is not likely.  then again, it could be that i am from southern california....the phoney capitol of the world.

One quick question because I really have to log off now.

Do you think I'm putting on an act when I claim not to be that way??  (self-obsessed I know, but its something that I've been accused of before so tough shit).

PI, i have gotten to know you better than most of the people here.  maybe all the people.

you have shown amazing consistency.  i don't see you as someone who puts on an act.  though sometimes you are controlled by your insecurities, which holds you back a bit.
you are one of the best people i have ever had the pleasure of knowing.

Well I'm at least glad PI has not been tarred with the same brush as me.
Hope one day you can tell me why I am in fact the one who is fake.

i never said that i thought YOU were fake.  i think that most women are fake.  i haven't had a chance to get to know you well enough to classify you as a person, yet.

[Eclair]

eclair,

I thought it was a general discussion myself.  I was teasing about the crassmess of the in house pussy statement...why do you jump down on me and no-one else?

for some reason you make me feel insecure.

I'm sorry that you feel that way.

[McGiver]

eclair,

I thought it was a general discussion myself.  I was teasing about the crassmess of the in house pussy statement...why do you jump down on me and no-one else?

for some reason you make me feel insecure.

I'm sorry that you feel that way.

i am the one that should feel sorry. the issue is with me, not you.

[Eclair]

eclair,

I thought it was a general discussion myself.  I was teasing about the crassmess of the in house pussy statement...why do you jump down on me and no-one else?

for some reason you make me feel insecure.

I'm sorry that you feel that way.

i am the one that should feel sorry. the issue is with me, not you.

I'm thinking that anyone who knows me, male or female...or anyone I ever dated who read any of my posts here would say that I am being me...that I am being honest.  I've said that to you before...that I would be easily recognisable if someone who knew me logged on here.
I know the issue is with you...just doesn't seem to matter what comments I make they just are annhilated.  It's exhausting.

[purposefulinsanity]

Ok Eclair I didn't ask the question because I wanted to separate myself from you about this- I asked because insecurities make me sometimes question how the people I'm friends with view me.  I'm sorry if that's what you thought I was doing.

[Eclair]

Ok Eclair I didn't ask the question because I wanted to separate myself from you about this- I asked because insecurities make me sometimes question how the people I'm friends with view me.  I'm sorry if that's what you thought I was doing.

No PI, I know the question was a direct one from you to McJ.  No need to apologise at all 

[The_P]

What are we arguing about again? This is too Emmerdale for my liking...

[El]

Having read this whole thread, and having gone over this exact same fucking debate in what feels like half a dozen threads on Intensity, let me just say this:
-OMFG women uze sex to buy luv and their whorz they shud just put out and let the guy fuck em and leev yes 1111onezors!!!!
-WTFliek noes men r pigz they just want sex so wommen shud get what they can out of the fukking baztards n-e-weigh since teh guy getz what HE wants!!!!
-OMFG NO WAIS
-YEZ WAIS
-DIE!
-UDIE!
-DIEZORZ!
 

[Calandale]

then nobody would probably have sex. women arent intrested in it. withought free stuff, is that what you want?

No- women just aren't interested in sex with you without free stuff.

Fixed. They're just interested in the free stuff,
and willing to prostitute themselves. Don't worry
though - most guys have this problem.

What...?  The ghost of Lit, lingers on...
I've always expected to pay for my share on dates, and would probably prefer to on most accounts, unless it was meant to be a nice surprise somewhere special...

Uhm, it was a jab at Richard.

 

[Calandale]

Is the idea that a woman might only want sex from you so far fetched Calandale?

Not in the least.
See the previous post.

[Calandale]

I agree it is all bullshit- who gives a rat's arse if you've been out with someone enough times to fuck them?  If you want to fuck them should it really matter if you're following the 'rules'?

Times? I use sex as an icebreaker.

Or I did. Now, I don't use it at all. 

[Calandale]

Anyway, I've shouted females dinner with no intention of fucking them.  Sometimes it's just nice to surprise someone with a night out on you.
....or ON you...!

One normally serves or treats to dinner.
Never just had it shouted to me.

[The_P]

I agree it is all bullshit- who gives a rat's arse if you've been out with someone enough times to fuck them?  If you want to fuck them should it really matter if you're following the 'rules'?

Times? I use sex as an icebreaker.

Or I did. Now, I don't use it at all. 

Because the wife is too stiff as a board?