I suppose you have a point there And think of all the places that would go out of business if people just gave into their urges without making their partner work for it.
No, I just don't think everyone is as into it...therefore they are more into the pleasantries. I'm all for pleasantries...can be nice foreplay...but honestly, I just don't think a lot of people are as in tune with that side of themselves.
i also suggest that you do not open the door for them. women are not feeble. they are perfectly capable of opening their own doors.
i agree, just be pleasant....be yourself.
and, if you can, have them pick you up for the date. they can burn their oun gasoline. besides, since you are a dude, your car is probably a pigsty.