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Re: *sigh* I heard that I should do this...so..yeah. ASK.
« Reply #435 on: July 10, 2007, 10:28:03 PM »
Do you skate for a roller derby team?

yes.


Awesome, which position do you play?  My wife was a Carolina Rollergirl for a while, then she fucked up her knee and we moved too far away to make practice regularly.

jammer.

crap...knees are the worst...how is she now?
Better.  Just gave a pair of skates away, hasn't been on any for a while now though.  She was a blocker.

You look like a jammer.

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Re: *sigh* I heard that I should do this...so..yeah. ASK.
« Reply #436 on: July 10, 2007, 10:30:28 PM »
That is cool that you play a sport.   I imagine you can get hurt doing that haha.   Well you are somewhat sadomasochistic right?   Your team is competitive I assume and not just casual?
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« Reply #437 on: July 10, 2007, 10:32:25 PM »
Are you diagnosed?

yes....just recently...january. my boys are both on the spectrum.

I don't really toss it out that I was diagnosed...I don't want the blame that I know
some ignorant assholes would toss at me.

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« Reply #438 on: July 10, 2007, 10:33:03 PM »
Do you skate for a roller derby team?

yes.


Awesome, which position do you play?  My wife was a Carolina Rollergirl for a while, then she fucked up her knee and we moved too far away to make practice regularly.

jammer.

crap...knees are the worst...how is she now?
Better.  Just gave a pair of skates away, hasn't been on any for a while now though.  She was a blocker.

You look like a jammer.

Have you seen my t-shirt?

http://www.cafepress.com/campsohcahtoa/2424870



I haven't seen it....I am all over it right now.

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« Reply #439 on: July 10, 2007, 10:33:54 PM »
That is cool that you play a sport.   I imagine you can get hurt doing that haha.   Well you are somewhat sadomasochistic right?   Your team is competitive I assume and not just casual?


competitive, for sure.

yeah, I like pain. all kinds...

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Re: *sigh* I heard that I should do this...so..yeah. ASK.
« Reply #440 on: July 12, 2007, 07:53:34 PM »
would having sex with you be more like a hurricane or an earthquake?
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Re: *sigh* I heard that I should do this...so..yeah. ASK.
« Reply #441 on: July 12, 2007, 09:56:29 PM »
would having sex with you be more like a hurricane or an earthquake?

Either one, just as long as you're in a room full of broken glass and rusty nails.

(Is my theory, anyway)
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« Reply #442 on: July 13, 2007, 12:25:40 PM »
competitive, for sure.

yeah, I like pain. all kinds...

That is cool you do a sport and its not just casual.  I imagine it is pretty rough like what I have seen on TV.  I am pretty sure I heard SM people have safe words that keep things from going too far.   Is that the case, or is anything outside of shock inducing pain and death fair game?
« Last Edit: July 13, 2007, 01:25:44 PM by Alex179 »
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« Reply #443 on: July 13, 2007, 12:30:22 PM »
are you a lesbian?

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« Reply #444 on: July 13, 2007, 12:46:47 PM »
I took Willow as someone with bisexual tendencies, judging by the material she has written.

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« Reply #445 on: July 13, 2007, 01:42:21 PM »
competitive, for sure.

yeah, I like pain. all kinds...

Competition is fun to a degree that is for sure.   Is it true that S&M people have safe words just in case things are starting to go too far?
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« Reply #446 on: July 13, 2007, 01:54:41 PM »
yes.

i'm not into S&M myself, but the safe word is more or less a given.  same as fetish clubs - very strict rules and boundaries.

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« Reply #447 on: July 13, 2007, 02:00:11 PM »


i'm not into S&M myself, but the safe word is more or less a given.  same as fetish clubs - very strict rules and boundaries.
i disagree.


i think that a trusted person would be better.  IMHO, it would diminish the pleasure if you knew that a simple word was an easy out.
then again, i wouldn't get into any of the brutally painful, or life threatening bullshit.
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« Reply #448 on: July 13, 2007, 02:03:13 PM »
competitive, for sure.

yeah, I like pain. all kinds...

Competition is fun to a degree that is for sure.   Is it true that S&M people have safe words just in case things are starting to go too far?

Some do, some don't.  It depends on the relationship between the Dom and Sub and the degree of trust that they share.

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« Reply #449 on: July 13, 2007, 02:15:07 PM »
Yeah that makes sense, safe words especially if you can't trust someone to control themselves.   I wouldn't have such a problem myself I think.    I would think the majority of people follow some sort or rules or use safe words to some extent, even if someone is trusted maybe.    I don't think I would be into truly life threatening or serious injury related crap either.   I am just curious haha. 
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