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*shrug* I respect that, I do, but if he doesn't like me, he doesn't like me. If he wants to use that against me in forums, more teh suxxor for me, but I'm not the sort of person who plays nice-nice to get ahead.
It's an in-joke, he isn't serious. And neither am I. Seriously, I would never use that against you on any other forum. I don't believe in moderators that hold grudges.
This is Intensity, however. It's not moderated, it's not regulated, and people say what they want, when they want. If you're new (and you are, and it's just a fact, not an insult) and say something stupid or something that someone thinks is stupid, you'll be called on it. That's just the way things work. Usually when you're a newbie, people will wait and see what kind of person you are before they really get on your case. You get a chance to define yourself.
Sometimes this goes wrong, sometimes not. In your case, you managed to annoy me for some reason. No big deal, it'll pass (in fact, it has all but passed already, and now I'm simply passing the time and engaging in some light banter) and I don't get to decide anything beyond my own opinions anyway.