fucking a guy in the ass is not ghey.
One of my (long past) buddies held this opinion.
I couldn't understand it from him either. It's like
saying that fucking a sheep doesn't make a person
a zoophile.
but it isn't. how you have sex isn't how you define your sexuality, not exclusively, anyway. and, as i keep saying, you'd be surprised at how little anal sex goes on between gay men.
and another thing - why is there all this hoohah about "i'm not gay!" and "anal sex? no, that's gay!" when a goodly proprotion of men want to shove it up yer jacksie at the drop of an underwear, and go on and on and on about it (here, for example), yea until it's coma-inducing? answer me that, then, go on.