Someone started a thread about us at WP.

[Calandale]

Not that abuse is ever allowed in a relationship of course...

Speak for yourself dearie.

[Calandale]

Not that abuse is ever allowed in a relationship of course...I just had a visual of her having one of her punch attacks is all...and I burst out laughing.
Sorry, it happens sometimes...laugh at the wrong moment!

I find it hard to even picture her doing it to herself, even though I saw the black eyes that she said she gave herself.

I've socked myself in the jaw, pretty damned hard.

[Eclair]

Eclair's name is Claire.

And how did you find that out?

[Calandale]

Not long after I called her out for the comment the thread was locked...and mysteriously reopened briefly for her to have the last word too.

Nothing mysterious. It's trivial for a mod to
post in a locked thread - easier than reopening it.

[Calandale]

Wonder if she will need to have any more last words in this locked hread?

Might end up like Richard's call out. 

[Eclair]

Not long after I called her out for the comment the thread was locked...and mysteriously reopened briefly for her to have the last word too.

Nothing mysterious. It's trivial for a mod to
post in a locked thread - easier than reopening it.

Piss weak...fucking piss weak.

[Eclair]

"How could a 16 year old emotionally support someone that high maintenance?  "

Exactly - this has always been what upset me about their relationship.

Quite frankly, their relationship is NONE of
any of our problem. I just don't see what you
all find so worthwhile in picking on her about
this. Feelings are feelings. What they are going
through may be the best thing in the world for
both of them. Y'all have no right (or place) to
judge.

You aren't really the best person to make an unbiased comment on this either, are you.

My original comment on Graelwyn was she abused her powers as Mod, and that she should not be having a relationship with someone who is 16.  I have every right to have my opinion. 

[Calandale]

"How could a 16 year old emotionally support someone that high maintenance?  "

Exactly - this has always been what upset me about their relationship.

Quite frankly, their relationship is NONE of
any of our problem. I just don't see what you
all find so worthwhile in picking on her about
this. Feelings are feelings. What they are going
through may be the best thing in the world for
both of them. Y'all have no right (or place) to
judge.

You aren't really the best person to make an unbiased comment on this either, are you.

My original comment on Graelwyn was she abused her powers as Mod, and that she should not be having a relationship with someone who is 16.  I have every right to have my opinion. 

1. No. I like Grael AND young girls. 

2. Yeah, you have a right to your opinion.
Still, opinions are less allowed there. AND
Love is a hell of a lot more important then
some stupid legal constraints.

[Eclair]

"How could a 16 year old emotionally support someone that high maintenance?  "

Exactly - this has always been what upset me about their relationship.

Quite frankly, their relationship is NONE of
any of our problem. I just don't see what you
all find so worthwhile in picking on her about
this. Feelings are feelings. What they are going
through may be the best thing in the world for
both of them. Y'all have no right (or place) to
judge.

You aren't really the best person to make an unbiased comment on this either, are you.

My original comment on Graelwyn was she abused her powers as Mod, and that she should not be having a relationship with someone who is 16.  I have every right to have my opinion. 

1. No. I like Grael AND young girls. 

2. Yeah, you have a right to your opinion.
Still, opinions are less allowed there. AND
Love is a hell of a lot more important then
some stupid legal constraints.

It was you who brought everyone's attention to the shit at WP anyway.  I'm not making any assessments on whether she loves him, he loves her whatever.  You know my feelings about people who take advantage of younger people's relationship or emotional inexperience, you don't have to like what I think...but you are going to have to accept that I don't buy it.

[Calandale]

It was you who brought everyone's attention to the shit at WP anyway.  I'm not making any assessments on whether she loves him, he loves her whatever.  You know my feelings about people who take advantage of younger people's relationship or emotional inexperience, you don't have to like what I think...but you are going to have to accept that I don't buy it.

Yeah, I do. probably shouldn't have said NO RIGHT.
But, I believe in love the way some people do in
a god, and go overboard sometimes.

[Eclair]

Eclair's name is Claire.

Can someone explain why this is here?

[Calandale]

I doubt it.

[purposefulinsanity]

Pure randomness??

[McGiver]

i had something to add, but i don't want to be shot down by calandale.

[The_P]

I found Graelwyn very hard to deal with on msn - I added her in the hope of making a friend from Aspie Village.  We talked for a while, and everything seemed ok.  She had to mention how bad her life was in every chat and how miseralble she was, but she seemed nice and I wanted to offer my friendship.     

However, one night I had come home from work, and I was having problems at work and I really wanted to talk to someone about it. I just wanted to run my situation past someone and see what advice they had to offer.

I said "I'm having a really stressfull time at work right now" and she said "how do you think I feel, I'm not even capable of work!"  And I said "well, I'm having problems" and she said "at least you have a job.  Some of us are too Autistic to even find a job".   I told her that I only got my job through Job Centre disability support, and  I wasn't coping with it anyway, so I wasn't any better off than her.  Then I logged off in a rage.

Personally, I would just wash your hands off from her. Not because of the fact that she's Graelwyn, but the fact that you cannot seem to openly express yourself to her. That's a sign of a fleeting friendship.

Continue to speak with her, if you must, but try and keep an arm's length and don't expect a lot in return from her.