Spokane Girl is actually one of my oldest online firneds - I knew her online about 2 years ago, I met her on Aspie Island before i joined WP or here. However, when I approached her here to get back in touch, she wouldnt believe it was me and acted like I was a stalker.
I'm glad you consider her a friend. I wouldn't trust her as far as I could throw her, personally.
I wouldn't trust you either because you might accuse me of pretending and playing "my game" so you be a waste of time chatting with you. Why do you think PM was out of the question?
Several people patiently told you that you would probably get a better result if you posted your requests to have someone change your diaper on one of your diaper fetish websites instead of here. When you post requests for someone to change your diaper on a website where people tend to take things literally, don't expect to get serious offers. Actually I was surprised you got any offer at all, the one from Jman.
If it turns out that you have a medical issue which makes you need to wear diapers and I hope that you look into that possibility, then my heart goes out to you.