Ask the new ALLDAYGLOWRANDY anything

[Calandale]

I HOPE not.

But, I hold by families keeping
there shit from spilling out.

Flo rants on here about her, big
shit. She came here ONLY because
of him.

[odeon]

sometimes spilling out the guts is all you can do, all you have left.

[Calandale]

Yeah, and sometimes carving someone
to little pieces seems the best option.

In the end, I'm rather glad that I didn't.

[odeon]

i know all about that one. but i still don't think belonging to one of those silent, suffering families is an advantage at all. if you have to spill some of it, you have to.

[Calandale]

Oh, I agree. But there are better places
to vent.

[odeon]

only if you know of one.

[Callaway]

FC 

If I can bloody remember.
Families shouldn't do this
shit out in the open.

You came here to help,
and maybe you think that
trying to embarrass your
brother is going to, but
there are limits to decency.

It's fine to vent where it ain't
hurting someone, but what you're
doing is SO wrong.

 

Who are you to judge what Fine Chocolate et. al. have to say to Randy or what he has to say to them, Calandale?

Do you care more for him than they do?  Do you even know any of them IRL? 

No, you don't, so stay out of it.  It is none of your business.

[Calandale]

I don't know shit about them.
BUT, I can't imagine any case
where a family should spill this
shit out, in front of people
who know them, in order to
humiliate.

And, by posting it here,
it DID become everyone's
business. That's what's so
fucking wrong about it.

[DirtDawg]

I partially agree with Calandale, but in light of what Callaway is saying, people sometimes run out of logical options when they are endlessly involved with another's problems.

I would not want to deal with another obstinate person, who seems to be hellbent on self destruction, on a daily basis. It's a lot to handle from both sides of the conflict.

[Calandale]

Unethical moves are NOT the solution.

[mordok]

Perhaps this is the only way she is able to get all her thoughts out in the open.  I don't know about you, cal, but my family was more likely to tune out or attempt to squelch an opposing viewpoint than to actually listen.

I also wonder what your opinions are on all the things Flo has said about FC prior to her speaking up -- I do not recall you questioning his ethics for airing his dirty laundry (no pun intended).

[Callaway]

Perhaps this is the only way she is able to get all her thoughts out in the open.  I don't know about you, cal, but my family was more likely to tune out or attempt to squelch an opposing viewpoint than to actually listen.

I also wonder what your opinions are on all the things Flo has said about FC prior to her speaking up -- I do not recall you questioning his ethics for airing his dirty laundry (no pun intended).

Good points, Mordok.

 

[Calandale]

Perhaps this is the only way she is able to get all her thoughts out in the open.  I don't know about you, cal, but my family was more likely to tune out or attempt to squelch an opposing viewpoint than to actually listen.

I also wonder what your opinions are on all the things Flo has said about FC prior to her speaking up -- I do not recall you questioning his ethics for airing his dirty laundry (no pun intended).

From my understanding (and perhaps I'm wrong about
this), flo was a member here, due to being an aspie.
FC showed up merely to "help" flo. I think that one
has something of a right to be pissed at being
stalked, in such a manner.

[mordok]

FC 

If I can bloody remember.
Families shouldn't do this
shit out in the open.

You came here to help,
and maybe you think that
trying to embarrass your
brother is going to, but
there are limits to decency.

It's fine to vent where it ain't
hurting someone, but what you're
doing is SO wrong.

This was your original statement on the matter.  Nothing in here indicates that the nature of your objection is who has AS and who doesn't.  Flo often denies he has AS anyway.

And as for trying to help him.  He's constantly saying he's trying to help everyone even after they refuse that help.  Again, you seem to have varying standards here.

[Calandale]

This was your original statement on the matter.  Nothing in here indicates that the nature of your objection is who has AS and who doesn't.  Flo often denies he has AS anyway.

So what? One brings one's knowledge into such
issues. Mainly, I just want to make it clear to FC
that I think that what she did was wrong.

And as for trying to help him.  He's constantly saying he's trying to help everyone even after they refuse that help.  Again, you seem to have varying standards here.

WTF? Are you missing the whole point?
I have nothing against people trying to
help. All that I'm opposing was airing
dirty laundry, in order to fucking embarrass
him, on a site where he has some friends.