ZEGH.
I also caught Ms Y snooping on YOURMUM's ask away thread as a guest.
Was she....? Was she really now...?
Yes, she was.
I have no buttfucking idea why
She was curious?
Nah, there's usually some sort of motive behind it, like looking for things to use against PSP. The point is why would she still feel the need to? She won and got her own fucked up way. I'd have thought she'd like to forget our names and leave us in the past.
Oh FFS. She's like a 3-year-old who's afraid someone's going to take her favourite toy. I'd pity her if she hadn't caused so much pain.
Incidentally, I wonder how Daniel feels being someone's favourite toy...?
I wouldn't feel too bad for him. IMO, he toyed around with all three of you
IMO, he's being an idiot and not thinking about the effect of his actions on others, and MsY isn't doing anyone, him included, any favours by insisting that he's completely innocent and did nothing wrong, ever.
When he was talking to me he at least apologised and acknowledged it once he understood that he'd hurt me and why whatever he'd done had been hurtful; now MsY has him thinking that it's all manipulation on my part.
You're right, of course, but I think he's all too eager to listen to that tripe and take it on board, IMO because it falls in line with what he really believed all along.
Also, I think he is a pretty good manipulator himself. It seems to me that he must be since you seem willing to almost excuse his actions and assign primary responsibility to her when he's the one who's supposed to have been your friend.
I'm not excusing his actions; I've openly acknowledged (more on WP than here) that he hurt me a lot. I do understand them to some extent, though, as he was in a difficult position, and if I'd been in the same position, I don't know that I would have handled things much better. I am pissed off at him for not being upfront about a few things, but that seems more like a case of mishandling things than of deliberate manipulation.
Here's a few things that he DIDN'T do that MsY did...
1. He didn't pretend to like me to get me onside when YOURMUM was dating Daniel. She did, because she thought it would make it easier to get Daniel back to her.
2. He didn't try and get anyone to stop talking to their friends by threatening to leave them if they did.
3. He didn't, but she did- come back all full of apologies and "Oh, it was a miscommunication, I like you really" when I pointed out that forbidding one from speaking to one's friends is abuse, and then turn around and wait for the slightest slip from me.
4. And he certainly didn't make YouTube videos attacking me.
He has been thoughtless; she has been outright nasty and manipulative.
she looks like a cross between a weasle and a horses rear end
* Well, personal insults brang her out of the shadows last time
Considering that I've already said or insinuated
* That she is manipulative
*That she is a liar
* That she is evil
* That her God, if he exists, hates her.
* That if her God exists, she's going to Hell when she dies.
* That her happiness is as flimsy as a house of cards
and she hasn't responded, I don't think that comparing her to a horse's behind will do much.
But who knows; maybe compliments
are the way to go.