I'm hard pressed to decide. I am pretty good at language.
I am good at expressing myself, but I suck at empathy. I kinda fake it based on how I know people are supposed to feel.
I avoid pain by not only by (at times) excluding, devaluing, and discarding others but withdrawing and passionately valuing only a few people or interests. I just DONT do the prior by saying it to their face, or trying to make them look bad to others(which is so obvious when it is being done it is self defeating). I just do it in my own mind.
I am still undecided.