Ask Eclair anything.

[Eclair]

you're proving my point, love

so, you're in control of yourself, people who smoke pot are not   

 I MUST be a weak person, unable to control my life,  and not really be a domme if I smoke pot, 'cause that is "weak"

I think the post below is the one that pissed you off. As you will know, drug taking is generally not recommended whilst 'playing'. If the below post pissed you off so much, that you felt the need to have a go at me rather than 'back up' why being stoned is the way to play, then it really reflects on you, not me. I suggest you run along if the below post by me is all it takes to annoy you, rather than back up your stance on drugged BDSM play.

No I quit smoking cigarettes, so that kind of halts the human ashtray fetish of mine .... but I smoke joints and blunts and often ash into my subs mouth, I also take HIS cigarette, and ash it into his mouth. even in public 


It's a sign of love.


I know I slap my sub, and kick him and ash in his mouth, but he is very special to me. I care for him deeply. I let him sleep in the bed with us the other night, he was so happy he could burst but he was just as happy to get back in his cage. 


To have someone submit to you like that, it is like a gift. It should be treasured. I hate ungratefull dom/mes


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I dont know this guy im talking to now...another object for me to spit on Just chatting.

So you are high when you are playing? Or do you do drugs a lot anyway and it's just part of your lifestyle like an addiction?

[eris]

well that is why I decided to say something to you at this moment, but not why you annoy me

Ive said over and over - my issue is that you believe you are superior. You can continue to drag other personal issues into it instead of actually talking about the issue,  doesnt bother me.

saying that " drugged bdsm play is not reccomended" is just another example of why you think you're superior, and you thinking I need to *explain* myself about a moral issues is my WHOLE problem with you



my stance on "drugged" BDSM play ?

 is that I smoke 2 joints in the morning, and I smoke 2 joints at night, and I smoke 2 joints in the afternoon cause they make me feel alright 

sorry that doest meet your standards

[Eclair]

well that is why I decided to say something to you at this moment, but not why you annoy me

Ive said over and over - my issue is that you believe you are superior. You can continue to drag other personal issues into it instead of actually talking about the issue,  doesnt bother me.

saying that " drugged bdsm play is not reccomended" is just another example of why you think you're superior, and you thinking I need to *explain* myself about a moral issues is my WHOLE problem with you



my stance on "drugged" BDSM play ?

 is that I smoke 2 joints in the morning, and I smoke 2 joints at night, and I smoke 2 joints in the afternoon cause they make me feel alright 

sorry that doest meet your standards

So, if I have a comment that differs to someone else, I automatically *think* I am superior? That's an odd thing to say.

To be honest, as I said, it seems your insecurity about how much you use has caused you to take on some kind of stance against me. If you really honestly thought it was not such a big deal, and quite acceptable and you in fact were confident and happy with your drug use, I doubt you would have said anything to me or have been annoyed by what I said.

[eris]

lol

so, you're sayiing I secretly think I'm a drug addict and you "showing me the way" caused me to have some sort of butthurt reaction ?


naaa, you're not projecting at all  !!!




And if I feel like saying something to you I will say it. Im not going to keep an opinion to myself because you don't think it is an approptiate time to make it. Confronting you does not mean you've upset me, only that I want to call you out cause I think you're acting like a jerk.  

[Eclair]

lol

so, you're sayiing I secretly think I'm a drug addict and you "showing me the way" caused me to have some sort of butthurt reaction ?


naaa, you're not projecting at all  !!!




And if I feel like saying something to you I will say it. Im not going to keep an opinion to myself because you don't think it is an approptiate time to make it. Confronting you does not mean you've upset me, only that I want to call you out cause I think you're acting like a jerk.  

I made one statement and now I'm 'showing you the way'. Spare me, and run along. You are making a fool of yourself.

[eris]

right, cause im a pothead fool that needs to learn how to control and master my life 

[Eclair]

lol

so, you're sayiing I secretly think I'm a drug addict and you "showing me the way" caused me to have some sort of butthurt reaction ?


naaa, you're not projecting at all  !!!




And if I feel like saying something to you I will say it. Im not going to keep an opinion to myself because you don't think it is an approptiate time to make it. Confronting you does not mean you've upset me, only that I want to call you out cause I think you're acting like a jerk.  

I made one statement and now I'm 'showing you the way'. Spare me, and run along. You are making a fool of yourself.

So, as per the above, you were told to run along days ago.

Now you have chosen to come back and rehash it when it suits you because you 'don't like someone'....then, after a few rambling posts, at your whim, it's suddenly finished again? One minute I'm not answering you, then the next minute you're twisting it around.

It already was over eeris. And you rambling on when I logged off 'that I wouldn't answer you' or 'oh, she won't talk to me', then you come back days later on another tangent. Why don't you focus on what you know best rather than to start arguments because you don't like someone. No one gives a shit. Seriously, they don't.

I'm not answering in your 50 different 'Whine about Eclair' threads, the whole thing was over days ago.

[eris]

yeah, it was over days ago, but you keep bumping the threads huh 



you're the one who wont keep it to one thread, I even try to repost everything in the main callout thread trying to keep it all straight.

We aren't saying anything new to each other. Im sorry I hurt your feelings, Eclair   Hope you can get over it.

till then  ? unless you have something new to say.... I'm bored with this.

[Eclair]

yeah, it was over days ago, but you keep bumping the threads huh  



you're the one who wont keep it to one thread, I even try to repost everything in the main callout thread trying to keep it all straight.

We aren't saying anything new to each other. Im sorry I hurt your feelings, Eclair  Hope you can get over it.

till then  ? unless you have something new to say.... I'm bored with this.

yeah, it was over days ago, but you keep bumping the threads huh  

 

Ahh, you keep bumping threads Bitch Tits, as my daughters would say.

You cried about me logging off last week, please, if you are going to do a call out, do it properly, otherwise, take a long toke, feel sorry for yourself, and try to berate those who have tried their best in their lives....accuse them of being 'over confident' if you will.

Sorry, if I had better things to do in my thirties than to scour the internet for sex and play pretend Domme, when really I should have been trying to get my shit together...oops, did I say that...

[Squidusa]

Sorry, if I had better things to do in my thirties than to scour the internet for sex and play pretend Domme, when really I should have been trying to get my shit together...oops, did I say that...

What is the reason you picked the username "Eclair" , is there some kind of significance to them? 

[eris]

yeah, it was over days ago, but you keep bumping the threads huh  



you're the one who wont keep it to one thread, I even try to repost everything in the main callout thread trying to keep it all straight.

We aren't saying anything new to each other. Im sorry I hurt your feelings, Eclair  Hope you can get over it.

till then  ? unless you have something new to say.... I'm bored with this.

yeah, it was over days ago, but you keep bumping the threads huh  

 

Ahh, you keep bumping threads Bitch Tits, as my daughters would say.

You cried about me logging off last week, please, if you are going to do a call out, do it properly, otherwise, take a long toke, feel sorry for yourself, and try to berate those who have tried their best in their lives....accuse them of being 'over confident' if you will.

Sorry, if I had better things to do in my thirties than to scour the internet for sex and play pretend Domme, when really I should have been trying to get my shit together...oops, did I say that...

wow, I REALLY pissed you off, huh

try to get over it

[Osensitive1]

when really I should have been trying to get my shit together.

Always took it as a given that people who really have their shit together don't hang in places like this. No offense to the membership; just saying.

[Semicolon]

when really I should have been trying to get my shit together.

Always took it as a given that people who really have their shit together don't hang in places like this. No offense to the membership; just saying.

You are here, too.

[Osensitive1]

Obviously.

["couldbecousin"]

Eh, I know a couple of people who "really have their shit together," and I wouldn't want to be them.