Ask Eclair anything.

[Eclair]

oh, goody!


i was simply thinking that i would hop a plane to aussieland and see what came up.....that was a bad joke.


what do you plan on doing with this person that you have lined up?

My thoughts change daily...anyway...it's best not to kiss and tell too close to the event.

why not?

superstition?

No, I probably don't want to give you a huge hard on!

and why not.


i would tell you if you had, and i would also tell you how i resolved the situation.

Tease!

[Calandale]

Why settle for only one of looks and intelligence?

[McGiver]

Maybe I'm not explaining myself on the talking dirty part.  I can't take it from someone who I think is inferior to me, inteligence wise.  I know that sounds harsh, but it's true...I can't help my little quirks.
This was a while back when I was still figuring out what I liked in bed, so in this instance, I went for looks rather than intelligence....he is probably the person who convinced me to always go for intelligence or it wasn't going to stand a chance in the sex department.

Does that make sense??

it makes sense.

you have standards.

why intelligence?

do you want to talk afterwards?

also, how intelligent do you think you are?
i mean:  does your requirement of intelligence exclude 90% of the world from sharing your bed?

[Eclair]

Why settle for only one of looks and intelligence?

I need both...but the looks don't have to be drop dead gorgeous, I guess they just have to be the ones that at least get me going!

[McGiver]

oh, goody!


i was simply thinking that i would hop a plane to aussieland and see what came up.....that was a bad joke.


what do you plan on doing with this person that you have lined up?

My thoughts change daily...anyway...it's best not to kiss and tell too close to the event.

why not?

superstition?

No, I probably don't want to give you a huge hard on!

and why not.


i would tell you if you had, and i would also tell you how i resolved the situation.

Tease!

not a tease in that way.  i would tell you.  and i might do it discretely.

[purposefulinsanity]

Maybe I'm not explaining myself on the talking dirty part.  I can't take it from someone who I think is inferior to me, inteligence wise.  I know that sounds harsh, but it's true...I can't help my little quirks.
This was a while back when I was still figuring out what I liked in bed, so in this instance, I went for looks rather than intelligence....he is probably the person who convinced me to always go for intelligence or it wasn't going to stand a chance in the sex department.

Does that make sense??

I kind of understand this- I personally just don't find stupidity attractive.  Its not like people need to be a genius but I prefer people who can challenge me away from the bedroom.

[Eclair]

Maybe I'm not explaining myself on the talking dirty part.  I can't take it from someone who I think is inferior to me, inteligence wise.  I know that sounds harsh, but it's true...I can't help my little quirks.
This was a while back when I was still figuring out what I liked in bed, so in this instance, I went for looks rather than intelligence....he is probably the person who convinced me to always go for intelligence or it wasn't going to stand a chance in the sex department.

Does that make sense??

it makes sense.

you have standards.

why intelligence?

do you want to talk afterwards?

also, how intelligent do you think you are?
i mean:  does your requirement of intelligence exclude 90% of the world from sharing your bed?

I don't talk much after sex.  The intelligence probably sounds demeaning, but I mean someone who is intelligent AND quick thinking really.  I don't want a mathlete or something...just someone who can engage me in discussion about a lot of things.
No, I don't think I'm super intelligent...

[Calandale]

Would TOO much intelligence seem to be a possible
turn off?

[McGiver]

how far did you go in school?

[Eclair]

Maybe I'm not explaining myself on the talking dirty part.  I can't take it from someone who I think is inferior to me, inteligence wise.  I know that sounds harsh, but it's true...I can't help my little quirks.
This was a while back when I was still figuring out what I liked in bed, so in this instance, I went for looks rather than intelligence....he is probably the person who convinced me to always go for intelligence or it wasn't going to stand a chance in the sex department.

Does that make sense??

I kind of understand this- I personally just don't find stupidity attractive.  Its not like people need to be a genius but I prefer people who can challenge me away from the bedroom.

Exactly...
And I can feel sorry for people who are slower or aren't as engaging or whatever....but it's just not going to get me where I need to go in bed.
Funny how I have to explain my definition of intelligence...yet a guy can just say I love bonking chics with big tits and that's OK...no explanation needed!

[Eclair]

how far did you go in school?

First base only    ok maybe kinda second base.

I finished high school and have been to uni. 

[McGiver]

how far did you go in school?

First base only    ok maybe kinda second base.

I finished high school and have been to uni. 

you just pwned me.

you answered both ways.
i was going to suggest the way you didn't answer.

damn, you are good.

[Calandale]

Funny how I have to explain my definition of intelligence...yet a guy can just say I love bonking chics with big tits and that's OK...no explanation needed!

I suspect that's because people expect males to
be shallow. I've pretty much always questioned
statements like that, from anyone. There HAS to
be more than a physical connection - though it
need not be an intellectual one.

[Eclair]

how far did you go in school?

First base only    ok maybe kinda second base.

I finished high school and have been to uni. 

you just pwned me.

you answered both ways.
i was going to suggest the way you didn't answer.

damn, you are good.

I'm just hoping the term first and second base translate the same over there! 

[McGiver]

i think that second base is in the bra.

third is in the panties.

i am not sure.

meh, i have always been a swing for the fences kinda guy.