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how was your childhood?
« on: April 14, 2007, 12:18:21 PM »
Are your parents together?

Would you say you had a happy childhood?

well, how was it?
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Re: how was your childhood?
« Reply #1 on: April 14, 2007, 12:22:27 PM »
At home it was very good. At school it was not so good, that is, it was good in class, but the school "mates" weren't especially nice.  :grrr:

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Re: how was your childhood?
« Reply #2 on: April 14, 2007, 12:23:22 PM »
It ranged from good to bad. School was bad.
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Re: how was your childhood?
« Reply #3 on: April 14, 2007, 12:26:24 PM »
would you say that you have adapted much of your parents ethos?
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Re: how was your childhood?
« Reply #4 on: April 14, 2007, 12:28:03 PM »
Some, but not all of it. People say that I'm a lot like my father, though, so I guess it's inevitable.
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Re: how was your childhood?
« Reply #5 on: April 14, 2007, 12:30:06 PM »
I have the rage of my father and the ethos of my mother.

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Re: how was your childhood?
« Reply #6 on: April 14, 2007, 12:30:15 PM »
i believe that adapting part of your parents ethos is inevitable, since we tend to become what we know.
i am just curious as to how much people have rebelled from what they know.  and in which ways.
what did your parents do that you swore never to do yourself, or vice versa?
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Re: how was your childhood?
« Reply #7 on: April 14, 2007, 12:34:40 PM »
I swore that when I got a family of my own, it would be more stable than ours was when I was a kid. Not a lot of moving around, financial stability, no changing from one school to another, and so on.

I've done reasonably well in that respect.
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Re: how was your childhood?
« Reply #8 on: April 14, 2007, 12:41:54 PM »
i believe that adapting part of your parents ethos is inevitable, since we tend to become what we know.
i am just curious as to how much people have rebelled from what they know.  and in which ways.
what did your parents do that you swore never to do yourself, or vice versa?

My parents, like most elder Swedes, were extremely honest people, and to a large extent still are. I have sworn never to be honest to authorities, if I can't gain anything from it, since I found out that they are corrupt and power-abusive.

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Re: how was your childhood?
« Reply #9 on: April 14, 2007, 12:43:46 PM »
i believe that adapting part of your parents ethos is inevitable, since we tend to become what we know.
i am just curious as to how much people have rebelled from what they know.  and in which ways.
what did your parents do that you swore never to do yourself, or vice versa?

My parents, like most elder Swedes, were extremely honest people, and to a large extent still are. I have sworn never to be honest to authorities, if I can't gain anything from it, since I found out that they are corrupt and power-abusive.
interesting.

something i have never considered.  and itt may not be a half bad idea.
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Re: how was your childhood?
« Reply #10 on: April 14, 2007, 12:46:10 PM »
My home life was (and still is) fine. My school days ruined me.
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Re: how was your childhood?
« Reply #11 on: April 14, 2007, 12:55:59 PM »
Spaghetto, you better be entertaining. That's all I'm going to say.

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Re: how was your childhood?
« Reply #12 on: April 14, 2007, 01:15:36 PM »
my childhood sucked. my mom married twice, and none of my brothers or sisters are related to me :laugh:

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Re: how was your childhood?
« Reply #13 on: April 14, 2007, 01:44:41 PM »
Like peaguy, was fine/great at home although i spent much of it spending time on my own, but school was a bit damaging.

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Re: how was your childhood?
« Reply #14 on: April 14, 2007, 01:52:27 PM »
i believe that adapting part of your parents ethos is inevitable, since we tend to become what we know.
i am just curious as to how much people have rebelled from what they know.  and in which ways.
what did your parents do that you swore never to do yourself, or vice versa?

I swore that I would never give up on life like my father did, or keep myself naive and ignorant like my mother did.

But I wouldn't have needed to rebel against them if I hadn't already incorporated their ethos. I still hold myself back far more than I ought to, as a result of their beliefs.

I hold the same respect for education and intelligence that they do, and I inherited their love of travel. (I wish my family had moved more, not less.)
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