I know exactly what you mean Spaghetto
It's been the story of my life - people treading on eggshells round me - my Dad's said it so many times!
And as for the getting paranoid about lack or text replies - that is me!
I used to have some humdinger rows with my ex about why didnt he reply sooner lol
Then I would not even have my phone switched on when he texted lol
And I find it very hard to cut contact with an ex if it hasn't ended acrimoniously
- as I see these people as friends foremost and dont want to lose them
But it can create all sorts of problems with the current bf
My ex came back to the house one day when my friend Lee was visiting and we were watching a DVD
My ex offered us both tea and I thought things were fine
After he says 'I saw the look he gave me while sitting on MY settee with MY girlfriend'
I said he was being ridicuous!