Well thanks
I am very into self improvement and open to constructive criticism
I can see that in a social setting I can be insufferable to certain types of people -
I'm not totally unaware of how I come across lol
If you keep changing yourself to fit in with all the different kinds of people though there's a danger
of losing your actual identity imo
i couldn't agree more. and i would hate to lose myself.
it's just that it has always been a mystery how people inteact with each other so seemlessly. so i like to abserve, always have. and i make decisions in my ownlife based upon those observations.
can i live with that action....well then it is food for thought.
did that action repulse me....then i will certainly not adapt that behaviour.
was that persons action moving to me in a positive way...then i will consider it and likely adopt it for self use.
the thing i realize is that no matter how hard a person fights things, they are still influenced by the things they have seen and done. their person is made up of situations along there lifes journey and the character of their natural spirit.
who a person is is a give and take between the two.