British Aspie site

[esme456]

I love that song! 

[McGiver]

I love that song! 

yes.
it's an american classic. 



but i thought you hated the yanks.

[The_P]

She just hates NTs, the sap.

[esme456]

I didn't make the rules on AV

Ithink keeping it just UK is to keep it smaller, more manageable and more of a community, not due to any
particular aversion for any non-UK residents

It seems to me that on places like WP where it's anyone allowed people are getting banned all the time
- we hardly ever get bannings on AV as it's usually very calm

Too many wild-cards/too many personality clashes if you don't limit the site in some way

Agreed that Intensity is therefore needed as a haven for the wildcards lol

[McGiver]

intensity is needed to celebrate diversity.

i guess you could call us more PC than the other sites out there.  because we don't discriminate.

[esme456]

Yes, I can see that now

If it's accepting of everyone though, you have to admit that chaos is far more likely to reign
and it won't be a very stable or calm environemnt

[The_P]

Yes, I can see that now

If it's accepting of everyone though, you have to admit that chaos is far more likely to reign
and it won't be a very stable or calm environemnt

Good. More excitement, and less of the bores.

[McGiver]

Yes, I can see that now

If it's accepting of everyone though, you have to admit that chaos is far more likely to reign
and it won't be a very stable or calm environemnt

life is chaos.
evolution is random.

if you want calm, then may i subggest you revisit the womb.

[The_P]

yeah.

waaaaay ghey.

Old man, there's no need to feel down...

[esme456]

Lol, why is being boring so terrible??

One person's boring is anothers' interesting

I find you exceedingly boring and tedious P

McJagger is at least capable of sustaining intelligent conversation

You don't even attempt it

[The_P]

Lol, why is being boring so terrible??

One person's boring is anothers' interesting

I find you exceedingly boring and tedious P

McJagger is at least capable of sustaining intelligent conversation

You don't even attempt it

Why do you keep replying to me then, oh extroverted one?

Look Macie, it's an internet weirdo. Say hi to the nice lady! 

[McGiver]

peaguy is very entertaining.

and one of the nicest and most loyal friend a person can have....once you get past his defensive mechanisms.

why has he built these defensive walls you ask?
well i suspect that it is from a life of dealing wioth people who did not understand his quirks and ridiculed him for them.  even punished him for them.
maybe he has learned to act less serious, because it hurts less when people tells him he is wrong.


think about that.
think about how much harm your rules are doing to legitimate aspies.  how your intolerance, is intolerable.

[esme456]

Well I've had a lifetime of ridicule myself

My manner is a defence mechanism too

I know you/he think I am only being patronising and snotty but i do have an
actual desire to help

I see what works for me and use that as a template to advise others - that's all I'm trying
to do

I can see that some people don't want my advice tho and I can accept that...

[The_P]

Well I've had a lifetime of ridicule myself

My manner is a defence mechanism too

I know you/he think I am only being patronising and snotty but i do have an
actual desire to help

I see what works for me and use that as a template to advise others - that's all I'm trying
to do

I can see that some people don't want my advice tho and I can accept that...

I help people too. You just don't know it.

I win.

[McGiver]

but your advice is hippocritical.

from what i have observed people need you to ram your advice down their throats, yet are not allowed tolerance when speaking from the place that they are coming from.

for example:
your only making a joke with lit, yet other people are nasty when they say in effect the same things.