The worst aspies?

[DirtDawg]

I will re register, but I absolutely cannot guarantee I will be always cheery and never mention my issues, tho I shall try not to. I just do not like to hide parts of myself as to me that is not being honest at all.

We all have a bag of issues that will defeat us, if we are not tacking against them, constantly. No one expects any of us to be above the laws of nature, in that regard. None of us expect to have the answers given to us, either. But the questions, themselves, are often far more important than the answers, in case you are keeping score.

Usually, by the second or third time I meet someone who has jolly nonsense dancing from their mouths constantly, I want to inflict lasting pain on them, so please, don't think you need to be happy sappy to be part of something, here. Each of us has something of value to share, even Randy.

As McJ said, you are welcome to PM comments to me, but I would prefer to be out front and in public view, unless something too private comes up.

[Graelwyn]

I would say that the worst aspies are those who have nothing better to do than slag off other aspies behind their backs myself... I see that as the ultimate in cowardice.

Why other aspies.. what have you got against people in general?

The title refers to aspies...the thread is about the worst aspies, hence I used the word aspies. I do not agree with slagging off anyone behind their backs, but admittedly, most humans do it at one time or another. As to people in general, I do not get on with most people in general, aspie or otherwise.

But the aspies you're describing as worst are the reffered to with the first "aspies" in your sentence. I was asking about the second one.

I am not sure why this is so important to you... I imagine I simply put in aspies as par the course at the time... I don't tend to sit and think about my wording every single time I post and whether someone might dissect what I say and find something wrong with it.

MAybe I considered it less right for aspies to slag off other aspies than just other people in general because aspies have some issues that other people do not share? I do not know. I do not really feel like having to justify one word I put in one sentence that I wrote a day or two ago since I cannot recall what was going through my mind at that point in time.

[Graelwyn]

I will re register, but I absolutely cannot guarantee I will be always cheery and never mention my issues, tho I shall try not to. I just do not like to hide parts of myself as to me that is not being honest at all.

We all have a bag of issues that will defeat us, if we are not tacking against them, constantly. No one expects any of us to be above the laws of nature, in that regard. None of us expect to have the answers given to us, either. But the questions, themselves, are often far more important than the answers, in case you are keeping score.

Usually, by the second or third time I meet someone who has jolly nonsense dancing from their mouths constantly, I want to inflict lasting pain on them, so please, don't think you need to be happy sappy to be part of something, here. Each of us has something of value to share, even Randy.

As McJ said, you are welcome to PM comments to me, but I would prefer to be out front and in public view, unless something too private comes up.

I am unlikely to feel comfortable enough to pm anyone again here, if I am honest. Not for now anyway. I do not see why I would need to pm comments to you, considering the stuff I have already shared here in public today.

[Nomaken]

Nobody minds when youre not cheery.  They hardly mind anything you could say at all.  But they mind a little bit when you give shit but arent willing to take it.

But dont expect that when we say we dont mind your uncheeriness, that we will turn the other cheek when you are being disagreeable with us.  I personally will turn the other cheek if the other guy has an axe in my forehead, but very few people make that kind of guarentee.  But if we feel you have said something which we disagree with, or offends us, expect to hear about it.

Just because we argue with you doesn't mean we hate you.

[McGiver]

Nobody minds when youre not cheery.  They hardly mind anything you could say at all.  But they mind a little bit when you give shit but arent willing to take it.

But dont expect that when we say we dont mind your uncheeriness, that we will turn the other cheek when you are being disagreeable with us.  I personally will turn the other cheek if the other guy has an axe in my forehead, but very few people make that kind of guarentee.  But if we feel you have said something which we disagree with, or offends us, expect to hear about it.

Just because we argue with you doesn't mean we hate you.

good post nomaken.

i rarely hold grudges.  though my demeaner is fire and venom...on the outside, i really am compassionate.
i hold no grudges, then again, i will not conform and tell people what they want to hear.  i will speak what i am thinking at the moment, hurtful or helpful.
with me, you get what you get.

[Graelwyn]

Fair Enough 

[DirtDawg]

I will re register, but I absolutely cannot guarantee I will be always cheery and never mention my issues, tho I shall try not to. I just do not like to hide parts of myself as to me that is not being honest at all.

We all have a bag of issues that will defeat us, if we are not tacking against them, constantly. No one expects any of us to be above the laws of nature, in that regard. None of us expect to have the answers given to us, either. But the questions, themselves, are often far more important than the answers, in case you are keeping score.

Usually, by the second or third time I meet someone who has jolly nonsense dancing from their mouths constantly, I want to inflict lasting pain on them, so please, don't think you need to be happy sappy to be part of something, here. Each of us has something of value to share, even Randy.

As McJ said, you are welcome to PM comments to me, but I would prefer to be out front and in public view, unless something too private comes up.

I am unlikely to feel comfortable enough to pm anyone again here, if I am honest. Not for now anyway. I do not see why I would need to pm comments to you, considering the stuff I have already shared here in public today.

I'm just trying to cast a certain light on our disagreements ... more like a sibling spat than a formal crucifixion. Nothing more.

[Litigious]

You're a hard but fair man. I think. 

[purposefulinsanity]

I don't see any point in further going over old ground, unless someone needs to- but welcome back (and that is sincere) we don't really keep score of all the people we've managed to drive away although I'm sure some people think we do 

Oh and +1 for rejoining.

[Graelwyn]

I don't see any point in further going over old ground, unless someone needs to- but welcome back (and that is sincere) we don't really keep score of all the people we've managed to drive away although I'm sure some people think we do 

Oh and +1 for rejoining.

Thanks, lol. Doubt I will post much right now as I have not slept in 25 hours and that was seriously a bad idea...I am drooping. I dont know I will post as I did as I feel a little alien right now, lol. I shall see how I feel as time goes on and watch for a while.

[odeon]

Welcome back, anyway. It must have taken some courage. I don't + anyone for joining, though.

[Graelwyn]

Welcome back, anyway. It must have taken some courage. I don't + anyone for joining, though.

Nah, just my mythral suit of armour  thankyou.

[Pyraxis]

Oooh, mythral. Pretty.

[Graelwyn]

Oooh, mythral. Pretty.

Yup, now if only I could remember which game I got the idea from

[ozymandias]

Wasn't "Mithral" the special type of armor or chain mail from the Lord of the Rings?